ABCs Of Attraction Reviews 

I wanted to share a experience I had with ABCs of Attraction bootcamp in Toronto with JT Tran.

For some background, I’m a 21-year-old Chinese international student who moved to Canada for school. Dating and relationships have always been a major weak spot for me. I have never been in a relationship, and for a long time, I felt like I had terrible luck with women. Being in Canada also made it harder because I often felt socially and culturally out of place, especially in nightlife environments where I did not always feel like I fit in. At one point, I genuinely started thinking there was a real chance I could end up alone here. That sounds dramatic, but when you keep failing, avoiding women, and watching other people seem to figure dating out naturally, it starts to mess with your self-esteem. That was the main reason I decided to seek help from JT Tran and ABCs of Attraction. Before the bootcamp, one of my biggest issues was approach anxiety. I could talk once a conversation started, but actually walking up to a girl cold in a bar or club felt terrifying. I would overthink everything: what to say, how I looked, whether I would get rejected, whether I belonged there at all.The first night of the bootcamp focused on the fundamentals: attraction, mindset, social awareness, and breaking down approach anxiety. It gave me a better understanding of what was holding me back, but I was still very much in my head.The second night was where everything started to click. We booked a table, went out as a group, and the whole environment changed. Instead of feeling like I was alone trying to figure everything out, I had a group of guys around me who were also pushing themselves, holding each other accountable, and encouraging each other to approach.That brotherhood aspect was one of the biggest things I got out of it. Everyone was there to improve, and nobody let each other hide in the corner or make excuses. When you are surrounded by guys who are also pushing through fear, it becomes way harder to stay passive.We ended up going to a bar/club that was mostly white, which normally would have made me feel intimidated or out of place. But that night, I realized I could actually hold my own socially. I was approaching, having conversations, and not letting the environment make me feel smaller. That was a big mental shift for me.By the end of the weekend, I felt like a lot of the negative self talk I gave myself before were disproven. For example, white Canadian girls are racist towards asian guys and I was not attracted to them. At the end, I was able to pull multiple hot girls which if you had asked me a week before, I would not have believed you. They genuinely enjoyed talking to us, and I felt attractive to them.For anyone struggling with approach anxiety, especially if you feel like you do not naturally fit into the dating scene, I think the biggest value is not just the theory. It is being put in the environment, being forced to take action, and having people around you who hold you accountable. That part changed a lot for me. Another thing I really appreciated about JT’s material is that it is very specifically catered toward Asian men. That mattered a lot to me.A lot of dating advice online is very generic. It talks about confidence, masculinity, approaching, flirting, and rejection, but it does not always address the specific limiting beliefs that Asian guys can carry, especially in Western dating environments. Things like feeling invisible, feeling less desired, feeling culturally out of place, or assuming that certain girls would never be interested in you before you even try. Those beliefs can become a mental prison. Even before approaching, you already disqualify yourself.That was one of the reasons JT’s coaching hit differently for me. He understood the Asian male experience in a way that many mainstream dating coaches simply do not. It was not just “be confident bro” advice. It directly addressed the self-doubt, the cultural background, the insecurity, and the fear of being judged that a lot of Asian men deal with. I was also breaking down a lot of the beliefs I had built up about myself as a Chinese guy trying to date in Canada. So for those of you who are struggling in dating, maybe check out JT, he's the real deal.Another thing that stood out to me about JT is that he was not just teaching theory. He felt like the older brother I never had in this area of my life. A lot of guys can explain dating concepts, but JT actually demonstrated what was possible. He did not just tell us to approach. He showed us how to carry ourselves, how to start conversations, how to stay calm, and how to not make rejection feel like the end of the world.

JT is not your typical dating coach. He created a system that you can follow logically to train your social muscle. He fostered a brotherhood where you can make friends who has same goals so that you don't fight alone. He also hold you accountable for creating healthy relationship with the right actions.