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Every time I ask specific questions about someone here they never answer they always beat around the bush with some weird generic question or comment it’s a total rip off I’m embarrassed I ever spent... See more
Enjoyed it for a few minutes. It’s obvious the people you’re chatting with are either AI bots or people working in some office in Cyprus. Every member is online 100% of the time? Every woman just goes... See more
What another complete con . One woman’s profile claimed to be from Burton on Trent 10 messages later she admitted she was in America. This site is taking money by deception which is actually a crimina... See more
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Total scam
Total scam . They just want you to buy coins over and over .. not me once was enough to see through the bullshiit
"Date You" is a Scam
Stay away from this site. The person you think you are talking to is not real. All they want is for you to keep buying coins.
It’s a total farce!
It’s a total farce!
Fake profiles and used to extort money! Stay away! Anyone who gets taken write reviews to expose them.
It should be illegal.
Money trap…
I see everyone saying it’s wonderful that they have someone to chat with but, none of them live close by and will never meet you. They are all fabricated to get you to purchase more coins to continue messaging. Money trap
So here's how the scam starts
So here's how the scam starts, you meet someone from Tinder, they want you to meet them on their SnapChat, offering you sex, but first you have to sign up for these "better than Tinder" sites and send a screenshot of your user name. Then you start receiving lots of messages and emails from the site "dateyou" women, it doesn't matter what time you get on, they have someone send you a like or message and in order to respond you need to buy coins, it works out to a $1 for each message you send even for the short one or two word responses... these guys are shysters for sure, so all of a sudden all of these women are messaging you, and blam, you blow through your stash of coins in record time. I pretty quickly got the vibe that it was a scam as I'd been on a Russian Girls site that did the same thing before I realized they were just milking me of cash! Stay away from these guys, the girls, and probably guys manning the computers are probably sitting in cubicles. They must be raking it in! STAY AWAY FROM DATEYOU! Oh and not a single girl that wanted to meet or even email with the guy they were saying is amazing and get to know, I literally asked every single one I talked to just to see who would say yes and not one of them, they wanted to stay on the site, and they claimed that they were having to pay for the coins to, which I knew right away was BS.
Spent a lot of money here
I chatted with one person here for 31 days. I felt as though we had a connection. Gave her my cell number including my home address!
All I ever heard was "don't leave me here" made me feel bad!!
dateYou is only for Entertainment and chatting. All the girls work for the site!! The girls will never call you or meet with you.
The site becomes very expensive! Worse than any drug habit I've ever had!!
$100 a night M - F.....$600 on weekends
Have spent a lot of money
Have spent a lot of money, but not found one woman actually willing to meet. I suspect that they are hired to keep one spending their money. Its a bit funny that every positive review is from a woman....just saying what I see.
don`t waste your time
ripoff the women send you messages about how good you look and how they want to get to know you . but give them your number and they will say lets get to know each other on here . of course cause every message you send uses 50 coins so you will be out of alot of cash trying to get to know them if your thinking of it DON`T DO IT
Rip off
What a con I was talking to someone on here and spent £2400 we talked for hours and when I asked her to exchange numbers so we could start talking for free she said she would rather stay on here and then she blocked me this site is a con so all be careful
Fake, fake…
I've seen some serious ripoffs in my life, but date you tops the charts, numerous flattery from what seemed like a pen full of Hungry chickens, this is before I even had a profile.Coins disappear fast and they all love you and want you to keep buying coins, fake, fake, fake. That 1 star is to much.
I was immediately contacted by fake…
I was immediately contacted by fake profiles created by the app trying to chat me up to get me to buy coins in order to keep chatting with obvious Bots. The whole thing is a scam, every positive review you read was written by them.
This site is a fraud
This site is a fraud! You create a daring profile for free but pay out the wazoo to socialize with women online and can I collect your phone number or text information everything has to be through the site!! Basically, you purchase coins in order to socialize with women, it’s almost like an arcade for dating sites, you pay to play!
This app is NO GOOD and everybody who…
This app is NO GOOD and everybody who wrote other wise is too. They want to keep buying coins to chat aint talking bout nothing.
Gotta be multiple with same username one never gets story stra
This one never gets story straight. One time said had kids and than don’t n then has them again. Have to give credit as to how they try say it was a mistake. One said thought I was rltalking about their pets n then says no kids. Another time claims they were talking about their neighbors kids. They do get irritated if u question them though. The one I had most experience with is lady with name Mandy n a pic of her in a pretty white dress n another pic she has less on but she is giving a middle finger. When asked about posting another pic to give validities to I am the one don’t question me. They have excuse. One was I don’t like selfie’s but there are selfie’s posted. Lol
Computer fed Artificial program with…
Computer fed Artificial program with old grainy pictures
My experience with Dateyou has been…
My experience with Dateyou has been unfavorable. When you message a girl on the site they all say the same thing which i find very odd. Not only that, I will tell them if you want to keep chatting with me then i can leave my e mail. They will say, why cant you chat here? I can leave and come back and the same people will b e messaging me. It is a scam site.
This is a FAKE APP....
This is a FAKE APP..... DO NOT FALL FOR THIS SCAM.....
SPAM MASTERS!!!
Do not give them your email! You gonna get spam email every 30min during the day. Each day! Absolute garbage!
Don't do it
Don't do it! If you read in the fine print there are some real profiles, there are also paid "operators" that work for the company. Wondering why their light is ALWAYS green indicating that they are ALWAYS online? Right away when I signed up I got slammed with messages from some of the hottest girls Ive ever seen. I'm just an anverage middle aged dude. But whatever..... So I'm looking around and after a couple of weeks I started getting messages from some of the same girls harassing and taunting me bc I was not responding. So I take the dive and start chatting with a few girls. ALL of them have these problems that they do not trust men and thats why you can't get a phone number, an email NOTHING!!!! They all want to feel "comfortable" first and I'm not sure how many hundreds of dollars that will take. I realy liked this one girl and when I started asking her if she was an "operator" she became deeply offended and tried to make ME feel bad. Talk about mind f__k! She kept asking how committed I was to her, asking to pledge my loyalty to her no matter what. She kept me chatting and chatting and chatting. It was nice to have someone expressing such deep concern for my safety and well being and looking for commitment but she was referring to my bank account. Just keeping me on the hook to pay her bills. Why else would a single mom be able to dish out the ungodly amount of money that I did on chatting??? Finally, after doing some soul searching and lots of reading about similar experiences, I pulled the plug. Yes, if you want some chat sex.... this is great. If you fall for an operator.... you're screwed. Sorry.
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