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Most reviewers were let down by their experience overall. Many people were dissatisfied with the payment system, frequently encountering unexpected charges or being required to pay for basic interactions like chatting, even after purchasing a subscription. Customers found the website and app to be problematic, often describing them as misleading due to the presence of artificial intelligence and profiles that did not appear genuine. Reviewers consistently reported that the app was full of bots and AI-generated responses, making it difficult to connect with real people. They also felt that the subscription model and additional in-app purchases for "gems" were designed to continuously extract money without providing genuine value or privacy.

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Avoid !! It’s a scum ..how dare those chaps are still able to build pitch a buz proposition that after 30 minutes you realize is fake,money sucking,massively expensive and a big scum. Debatable... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I joined this a week ago and signed up for 3 month subscription when I tried to cancel no refund but won't say why! Trying to get money back through card provider but not hopefully. It is ridiculousl... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

So unbelievably fake, bots everywhere, false marketing, I think in the one month of using this app, I have seen two "regular profiles" which I can only assume are the real people. Once is the most fak... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Horrible scam app! This app is full of bots and fake profiles — there are no real people. I paid for features, and when I realised it was all fake, I submitted a refund request and a data deletion... See more


Company details

  1. Dating service
  2. Adult Dating Service

About Once

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Once is not just another dating app. It’s a mindful experience designed to match you with like-minded singles around the world. This alternative approach to matchmaking avoids the ineffective swipes, rushed choices and bad matches often experienced in online dating.

Once is here to help you discover something more meaningful. Imagine a dating site that adapts to your preferences, offering perfect matches every day, mutual likes, live streaming, and intelligent algorithms based on shared vibes, music taste, and personality. Once will calmly connect you with the best people around the world for highly engaging chat without relying on any tricks or gimmicks. In a world filled with the chaos of online dating, Once provides a slow and mindful approach, serving as the perfect antidote.

Cosmopolitan magazine say Once is “literally the answer to your swipe and dating app fatigue”. Created in France in 2010, Once received a major relaunch in 2021 and now draws from over 25 years of experience and an expert team of over 350 dedicated specialists. The safe and caring dating app has over 13 million members ready to date both locally and worldwide.


Once is focused on delivering quality over quantity with the best possible slow dating. Carefully designed features enable Once to expertly match you with like-minded people for a mindful and unique dating experience. The Perfect Match feature wisely pairs you with several ideal people once a day to improve your chances of success, while the groundbreaking Music Match feature connects members based on their music preferences using Spotify. Vibes is another advanced matchmaking tool that partners the most suitable people based on 100s of interests and personal qualities. Once dating app is available free on Google Play and App Store.


Contact info

  • Unit 3 26/F Greenfield Tower, Concordia Plaza 1 Science Museum, RD, Tsim Sha Tsui East, Kowloon, 999077, Hong Kong, China

  • support@getonce.com
  • getonce.com

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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

One star is too many

One star is too many. Nothing but fake profiles. Save your money. You are charged for text messages. The location of the profiles change. This site should really be taken down. I’m going to do everything I can to make that happen ✌️

16 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! We really appreciate your feedback and understand your frustration. ONCE is built to foster genuine connections, and we take profile authenticity seriously. While our ""Popular"" profiles are highly engaged members, all users—whether ""Popular"" or not—go through verification. If you ever come across anything suspicious, please use the ""Report"" button or reach out to support@getonce.com, and we’ll be happy to investigate.

Regarding messaging, with a Premium subscription, conversations with regular members are free, while additional features (like messaging Popular profiles) require gems. This setup ensures a balanced experience for all users, but we’re always open to feedback on how to improve transparency.

As for contact sharing, safety is our top priority. To prevent scams and ensure a secure dating environment, exchanging personal contact details within the app is limited. We understand this can be frustrating, but it's in place to protect users from potential risks.

We’d love to hear more about your experience and see if there’s anything we can do to improve it. Feel free to reach out to our support team! Wishing you the best on your dating journey. 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This app is fake fill of bots

Well I wrote a message to a girl on this app that should have gotten me kicked off and blocked yet I got a reply so let me assure you that there ain't no real people on there .

13 February 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Just don't.

Do not waste your time this app is riddled with fake accounts and they just try to get you to spend more money....please learn from my mistake and DO NOT invest any money with this app.
Or do and learn the hard way like I had too.
Its up to you.

11 February 2025
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Catfish & fakes

Somehow got shunted from eharmony to Once, eharmony had given them my profile photos, I filled in the required details and got to review women claimed to be using the site; many unfesdibly gorgeous women in my town. Have to keep buying credits to chat to them but I did try. First one, all her photos showed a red head, I told her I loved redheads and she replied denying she had that hair colour. Asked what area of my town she was in, reply very vague as if copied and pasted from Wiki. Other girls living close to me, not one would consider meeting, always same exact reply,”I need to get to know you better first,” as if AI generated, all in, I did not find a single woman whose photos showed, location or profile appeared genuine. Save your money, don’t waste your time, they will keep you talking and buying credits but you are not in with the smallest chance of finding a date

10 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hello! Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. We want every member of ONCE to have a real and meaningful dating journey, so we take authenticity very seriously. All profiles go through verification, but if you ever come across anything that seems suspicious—whether it's a mismatch in details, vague responses, or any concerns about authenticity—please report them using the ""Report"" button or reach out to us at support@getonce.com.

As for messages, every person has their own pace when it comes to dating, but we absolutely understand how frustrating it can feel if conversations don’t lead anywhere. Our goal is to connect people who are genuinely looking for something real. If you’d like, we’d be happy to check into your past matches and ensure everything is in order. Just drop us a message!

Your feedback helps us improve, and we truly appreciate it. Wishing you the best on your dating journey! 😊

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

you members sure do jump around a lot

you members sure do jump around a lot. I was off the site for a little while and when I came back several of the ladies I seen now are listed in different locations. It's amazing how your site show all these women wanting your attention again and not found a partner by now if they are truly real.

10 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. What you’re noticing might be due to a few factors. Some members travel, update their locations, or even temporarily deactivate their profiles before returning. We’re constantly working to improve our matchmaking and location accuracy to ensure the best experience for our users.

If anything seems off, we’d be happy to take a closer look—just reach out to our support team at support@getonce.com. We’re here to help and ensure ONCE remains a great place for meaningful connections. Thanks again for your feedback! 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

They all look like fake just about to…

They all look like fake just about to join, but after reading reviews thank you for the reviews. I deleted my profile today as well.

8 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey! We’re sorry to hear that ONCE wasn’t the right fit for you, but we appreciate you giving it a try. We take profile authenticity seriously, and our team works hard to ensure a safe and genuine dating experience. If you ever had any concerns about profiles, we would have been happy to investigate—your feedback truly helps us improve!

If you ever decide to give ONCE another shot, we’d love to welcome you back. In the meantime, we wish you the best in finding the connection you're looking for. Take care! 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

not real girls hitting one I didn't…

not real girls hitting one I didn't hide my age discussing

8 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! Thanks for sharing your experience. We want ONCE to be a space for genuine connections, and all profiles go through verification to ensure authenticity. That said, if you ever come across anything that feels off, please use the ""Report"" button or reach out to us at support@getonce.com—we're happy to investigate!

As for conversations, we know that compatibility is key, and sometimes discussions don’t go as expected. If there’s anything we can do to improve your experience, we’d love to hear from you. Wishing you the best on your dating journey! 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Fradulent site with fake accounts

I completely agree with everyone else's reviews of this site. It is completely and utterly full of fake profiles that take advantage of people who legitimately want to find and build relationships.

That being said there are ways to either have this site investigated and brought up to a more sensible standard of doing business by using this site as a way to hopefully pressure getonce.com to modify their business model to a more transparent and open structure. You can also get a refund if you use your smartphone to pay for the service. I'm an Android user so I filed a grievance with Google via the support site and am sure that this will work with Apple, I hope. I cannot give you direct links since this site won't let me share links, you can Google search "Get app refund on Playstore" and follow the instructions. You can also go to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) and access "Report Fraud" area. Hope this works for you.

3 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hello! We appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts, and we’re truly sorry to hear that your experience with ONCE hasn’t met your expectations. Our goal is to create a safe and authentic dating community, and we take reports of fake profiles very seriously. Every profile goes through verification, and we encourage users to report any suspicious activity directly through the app or by contacting us at support@getonce.com. Our moderation team investigates all concerns to ensure that ONCE remains a trustworthy space for genuine connections.

We also strive to be as transparent as possible about our business model. Messaging is free for subscribers, and gems allow flexibility for additional services, but we never want anyone to feel misled. If you have any specific concerns about your experience, we’d love the opportunity to address them—please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Again, we appreciate your feedback and hope to improve your perception of ONCE. Wishing you the best! 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

All replies here very helpful

All replies here very helpful. Thankful I’ve not spent real dollars. Knew it was too good to be true…. Reminds me of my experience with Bumble etc.

6 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! We appreciate your feedback and totally get the skepticism—it’s always smart to be cautious when using dating apps. That said, ONCE is designed to foster real connections, and we do our best to ensure authenticity within the community. While experiences may vary, there are plenty of genuine people looking for something meaningful here!

If you ever have concerns about profiles or the experience in general, we’d love to hear from you. Feel free to reach out at support@getonce.com—we’re happy to help! Wishing you the best on your dating journey, wherever it takes you. 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

One star is one too many

One star is one too many. This site is a total rip-off.

The 'Popular' profiles are fake and only there to make you spend money. If you pay money to upgrade to 'Premium' you still have to pay to message 'Popular' profiles.

There are very few real people but they're there and free to message. From a man seeking women perspective I'd say 95% of the profiles are fake ('Popular').

However, I must admit I met a couple real women and they quickly asked to communicate off of the site even though it's free.

I'm guessing I'm blocked (moderated) because I shared my email or phone number. This also explains why one woman gave me her phone number by spelling out the numbers and not using actual numerals. Live and learn.

4 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! We really appreciate your feedback and understand your frustration. ONCE is built to foster genuine connections, and we take profile authenticity seriously. While our ""Popular"" profiles are highly engaged members, all users—whether ""Popular"" or not—go through verification. If you ever come across anything suspicious, please use the ""Report"" button or reach out to support@getonce.com, and we’ll be happy to investigate.

Regarding messaging, with a Premium subscription, conversations with regular members are free, while additional features (like messaging Popular profiles) require gems. This setup ensures a balanced experience for all users, but we’re always open to feedback on how to improve transparency.

As for contact sharing, safety is our top priority. To prevent scams and ensure a secure dating environment, exchanging personal contact details within the app is limited. We understand this can be frustrating, but it's in place to protect users from potential risks.

We’d love to hear more about your experience and see if there’s anything we can do to improve it. Feel free to reach out to our support team! Wishing you the best on your dating journey. 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Spammed

Yet another online ' dating ' site which resorts to unsolicited spam emails touting for clients.

Not that I'm the slightest bit interested in what they have to offer, but it's hardly good business practise.

Stop it now please.

ETA: I've no intention of ' unsubscribing ' as this just shows an email address is monitored and opens it up to further abuse.

3 February 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! We hear you, and we completely understand how frustrating unwanted emails can be. ONCE is all about creating a great experience for people looking for meaningful connections, and we never want to be a bother.

If you’re receiving emails from us and would rather not, you can easily unsubscribe using the link at the bottom of the email. If you’re still having trouble, feel free to reach out to support@getonce.com, and we’ll make sure you’re removed from our mailing list.

Thanks for bringing this to our attention, and we appreciate your feedback! Wishing you all the best. 😊

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a scam

This is a scam. It's full of fake profiles and bots. You can't even have a conversation without having to pay more and more money. It's the worst site I've ever seen.

3 February 2025
Unprompted review
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Reply from Once

Hi there,

We’re truly sorry that you feel this way about ONCE. We take concerns about fake profiles very seriously, and our moderation team works hard to ensure that every member is real. If you’ve come across anything suspicious, we’d love for you to report it using the **‘Report’** button or contact our support team at **support@getonce.com**—we’ll be happy to investigate and take action.

Regarding messaging, a **subscription unlocks unlimited chats with regular members**, while gems are used for additional interactions. We understand that different platforms have different approaches, and we strive to provide a balance between quality matches and meaningful conversations.

We’d love to improve your experience if you’re open to it. Let us know how we can help! 💙

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a AI SITE

This is a AI SITE. Completely FAKE.
No one is even willing to give a suburb close to where they are, all the profiles want to do is chat on the site and every message costs you.
DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY

3 February 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

New, painful experience

I just signed up to getonce two days ago. I got a premium package and bought 150 coins or credits or whatever. I got a lot of responses from "Preferred Members", many of whom had very alluring, suggestive pictures on the site. I've texted with a number of them and ran out of coins within 24 hours. Fool that I am, I signed up for another 150 coins but I'm realizing that many of these "Preferred Members" are just on there to keep you chatting, and buying coins.

26 January 2025
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Reply from Once

Hey there! Thanks for sharing your experience, and we totally understand your frustration. ONCE is designed to create real connections, and we want every conversation to be meaningful. While ""Preferred Members"" are highly engaged users, all profiles go through verification to ensure authenticity. If you ever feel like a conversation isn’t genuine, we encourage you to use the “Report” button or reach out to us at support@getonce.com—we’re happy to investigate!

Regarding coins, we always want our pricing and messaging system to be as transparent as possible. A Premium subscription allows free messaging with regular members, while messaging ""Preferred Members"" requires gems. We know this model isn’t for everyone, and we truly appreciate your feedback as we continue improving the experience.

If you need any assistance or have concerns, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to help, and we appreciate you giving ONCE a try! 😊

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