Fab SwingersReviews 

Too many people on this site are plain ignorant. I came across one woman who said she doesn't want a "Chubby Man," but is chubby herself. Doesn't want anyone that "Has a penis on their profile," but shows her breasts. Talk about calling the kettle black. So many people who want to get to know each other before meeting, but don't even bother to message back. This site isn't just for swingers. It's for anyone looking for casual, fwb or maybe even a one night stand and yet they all talk out their asses. I've had a few, but that's on fab guys. Fab swingers is more of a 'Ignorant Swingers' site. There's also the option of being a 'Silver' or 'Gold' member. Why? So I can be ignored for pounds a month? I can be ignored for free, thanks.

So what can I share, plenty of pics/ videos. I have sent a variety of different messages and very limited responses.

I think there is too many fake profiles. The profiles talk a good game but when you attempt to interact with them there is no engagement or messages are deleted without looking at profile etc

As a single male on the site it was a waste of time, as a newbie on the site everyone blocked me or no reply from anyone but gay men, and I put it on my profile as 💯 perfect straight and only eyes for women 🤷‍♂️How would I become a regular if no one wants newbie or a reply, load of sit 👎👎

Flaming shit!! Don't bother to join...

I just deleted my fab account for the unteenth time. One guy keeps sending me offensive and abusive messages. I block him but, he has several other accounts all set-up ready so he can keep sending these horrible messages to me. I report every message he sends to me, yet admin do absolutely nothing. He isnt even a paying member! Someone will take theyre life one day because of the torrent abuse received by people like him.
Thommo30 and Jack the lad 300 is the abusive member. All because I wouldn't meet him

WoW what a nonsense and timewasting site. I been on this multiple times over a year and its always the same, overcrowded by faceless profiles of men cheating and wasting ones time to fill their w..k bank. Its old fashioned site in both functionality and layout. I would strongly advise not to use this unless your will and mind are as solid as cast iron lol you will need a lot of patients and especially if you are a single girl or as couple.

had 100s of meets over the years ...and been messed about many times to...fab is ok but its only as good as the people on it .. once everyone got a smartphone it did start to go downhill.i still get nice hook ups from it but i very rarely plan meets on it as too many simply wont show up .... its fully functional for non paying members but if you a single guy youll need a bit of patience

Fab used to be a good site but now it's a total waste of space, I got blocked from posting in forums and got blocked from adding meets without any warnings or explanation yet they are quick to take your money to be a site supporter, suffice to say I'll be deleting my account shortly

Absolute shit !!
As a single guy on there. Unless you want to be with things that nobody would look twice at. You probably won’t get a date and are wasting your time.
As a couple 99% of people only want your Mrs if she’s fit and message as though she’s on a solo account.
And if anyone reports you for anything. Usually a made up reason as they’ve been rejected. Your account gets suspended without any evidence that you’ve done anything wrong and you have no recourse to discuss the matter with admin.
If you like the chase without the result then maybe this it for you.

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Very disappointed in the 10 years as it lacks the simple skills in providing a safe service and constantly making mistakes, if reporting it's ignored and receive unnecessary warnings time outs or even banned for merely stating a point of concern which as users are entitled to some improvement giving amounts of crime that has been committed by those who were using the site and even got murdered people found their own pictures on other sites by someone who stole them from the profile. It clearly breaches all the regulations that were given to them by ofcom the online safety act 2023 the risks of users by the site who are not only responsible but accountable for the safety of its users and rather than issuing restrictions on those who break rules etc for harassment or bullying to actually remove them permanently as per the terms of conditions of which they have set up would be in breach of themselves. So everyone needs to contact ofcom profit before safety with no improvement in 10 years is scary with criminal activity drug dealing also occurring on the site escorts content selling etc users in uniform and photos being approved would be considered a act of misconduct by the profession/employment

As a couple on the site we were not short of opportunities to meet people, BUT have been blocked from using the forum from the day we opened an account - for no reason at all. Since we pay we expect full functionality. The forums are a big part of the experience for us.
The site owners famously ignore any reports of bugs/ problems.. it’s really offensive. I’ve reported the issue numerous times and contacting mods is pointless too.. they don’t do anything. I’m deleting my account today. Why should I pay money to people who simply don’t care?

The site works well in theory, but in practice, not good at all! I found the moderators to be DISCRIMINATORY to the point of being overtly Racist in the way they policed the site.

Okay, one could argue that it's a swingers site and not for single men. But there are plenty of single women and couples seeking single men, so there is a perfectly valid reason for being there.

The major problem occurs due to the fact that there are far too many single men online nowadays (everywhere!) and it's completely skewed the ratios and the expectations of both men and women alike.

I've visited here on and off for a couple of years (roughly, I think) and each time it seems much harder to even chat, let alone meet.

Women get swamped with hundreds of messages, most of which are immediately dismissed due to the obscene way that men talk to them. This sometimes causes them to wipe their inboxes, so we (the "normal" men, wanting to make good connections and enjoy the experience) get flushed away along with those who are just wanting a quick release.

Men are sat around with nothing, possibly for weeks or months. Even then, the women and couples that I've spoken to always vanish, either when you suggest meeting up (firstly for a cuppa) or you don't chase them constantly and see if they will actually message you first. Which they NEVER do. It's all up to you, fellas. You have to do ALL of the work, for very little reward.

I've left and returned three times now and I won't be back again. Fab is a complete waste of time, effort and money. Granted, you don't have to subscribe to use the site/app and thankfully, it's very cheap (compared to others), but it's still a waste.

I would avoid this place altogether, as it's not worth it anymore. Not that it really was a while ago either, to be fair. But we try and see what might happen.

Nothing. Nothing is going to happen lol.

Absolutely horrendous adim ignore you when you send a report in but there quick enough to take your money bunch of robbing tramps AVOID

It’s total shite. Half the profiles are fake. Most never read messages and those that do, most never respond. It really is a waste of time.

My experience with fabswingers is disappointing.As a man,women look at profiles as if it was fashion catalogue. I only had three views in two weeks.Comparing men on height and c**k size.The profiles are not shown only if you subscribe and other website don't ,the porn picture and videos are a waste of time,only two mintue clips.That you can watch porn hub for nothing.for longer.The cam doesn't work ,if you live on mobile you can't see comments only on P.c..The website and app is really only works for desperate women who only what Bbc.That one woman had 836 messages in a space of a week!! The couples are only made by men wanted there wives to be adventurous.Fourms are for subscribers.Far to many men on here to women.Of those women some are bisexual meets with other women.Only face pictures will get you anywhere so your risking your privacy.You got give them a friend request to look at face pictures.And they refuse.If want to hook up and meet,do the natural way or join a club for swingers.

I had to come off here due to a lot of discrimination received by other profiles on this website. No matter what I did, what decent photos of myself that I put on my profile, I would not receive any contact from anyone on here, single females, couples etc. This is also a common theme of the swinging/adult industry in general. Even causal dating apps such as Tinder, POF etc. I never receive any contact from females. I wouldn't mind, but I'm not the worst looking guy, I'm well endowed etc but not 8-9" plus which is what a lot of these single women & couples specify as a minimum requirement on their profiles - Yes, they actually outwardly state a minimum penis size required. I am 5'5" in height. I do believe that I'm constantly being discriminated against by so many women & couples because I never lie about my height on these apps & websites. What's the point of me lying about it...misleading couples & single females is only going to come back & bite me on the backside & I also shouldn't have to - I simply should be accepted as I am. The result of this has caused me significant mental health issues to the point where I recently considered suicide, but I stopped myself due to the devastation that it would bring to a loved one if I had seen it through. I would be willing to speak with journalists about my experiences and about the discrimination that I've received within the adult industry & with dating sites. I think that this needs to be highlighted, brought out into the open and be discussed, i.e the poor mental health impact that it causes to many men.

I was chatting to a few people trying to organise a meet, when out of the blue, suddenly I get a message from fabswingers telling me my account has been permanently suspended. And not to join any more of their services. I can’t message anybody on the site and nobody can see my profile or message me. There is no way to message the site owners to find out why either.
Had to ask a friend to contact them through his account, they said I must have done something serious to get a suspension but I don’t see anything that breaks any of their rules
Totally useless, even paid a membership too, the site accused my friend of being me, but using another account !!

Absolutely god awful profiles on there are mainly dudes hiding behind female pics and I have proof plus these assholes just exploit you for ur money for exactly what absolutely nothing I called out the creators but didn't want to face me wouldn't recommend it to anyone unless u have abs a bbc/bwc or god like looks because the females are absolute jokes on there AN ABSOLUTE JOKE OF A SITE

Genuine review from a single male's perspective.

Been on and off the site for nearly 10 years.

Met some nice people, actually met in person and had some sort of relationship (casual or otherwise).

But it's bloody hard work for a number of reasons and I only message a few people, not a cast my net wide approach.

This is my experience:

99% of messages go unread.

Of the 1% who might read a message, 99% do not reply or they delete - which is fine.

Of the 1% who read, about 1% reply.

Of the 1% who reply, 99% don't read your profile and 99% of the time nothing happens - chat ends even when it seems to be going good, or they have so many obstacles/preferences/insecurities etc etc that it's not worth the effort.

In a nutshell, there are far too many men compared to women, so women are inundated with messages. They can't read them all, so mass delete, take a dim view of all the men or are scared off.

The site knows this and does nothing in regards to the user experience of the site to make it better.

Not worth paying, but you can be free and still meet.

Just be prepared to put in a lot of effort.

And look out for the idiots and the abusers. There are plenty of those from both sexes, plus a load of scammers and women asking for money and other things.