I arrived at OurLove during a quiet and fragile time in my life, not searching for anything certain, only for a voice in the night. What I found was a connection that felt real, warm, and deeply pres... See more
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I did sign up , believing, that at last I will find a place where I can build a honest relationship. To my amusement, the basic payment , wasn't enough to write to several people , it last for t... See more
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I recently used this site thinking that they were honest and transparent. The excessive fees were outrageous. I suspect some profiles like the guy I was talking to(James 52) are fake or employed by th... See more
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Didnt really believe in dating apps before, then I ended up here. A friend recommended it. Lots of interesting people on here! Even if I dont find love, at least theres people to just chat with. Prett... See more
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Fake Acct! This site is really bad
This site is really bad ! …. It allows people to make fake accts with your picture evidently stolen from places like fb …. I have tried and tried to get that acct deleted but i’m still getting emails from men on there ! 😡😡😡😡😡
17 July 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
We completely understand your frustration. Accounts created with stolen photos are a serious violation, and receiving unwanted messages from them is understandably upsetting.
You should contact our platform’s Customer Success Team immediately and provide evidence, such as screenshots and links, showing that your photo is being misused. Ask them to delete the fake account and block any further communications.
Disappointed and stressful
Very disappointed, charging varies amount, once they have your card details, they are taking advantage. We in our life are busy with out daily hectic life and we trust them, one day when I had a time, I gone through my account and suddenly realised, I am getting shortage of money and then from my statement I noticed they were keep taking different amount from my bank.when I wrote them, they asked for my statement and still I don't have satisfied answer, I hope they give me refund as, I am older and living on my pension and I have to be careful also widow and looking for companies to kill loneliness . Mrs P M
6 July 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello! We completely understand your frustration and concern, especially when unexpected charges occur on a fixed income.
Please contact the Customer Success Team directly and provide:
Your account details
Screenshots or statements showing the charges
Any previous correspondence with the platform
They can review your account, investigate the charges, and help process a refund if applicable.
Your caution is completely justified, and it’s important that the platform treats every user fairly and transparently.
If I could give half a star or a…
If I could give half a star or a negative star I would. This is ridiculous. So many "men" from Argentina - more like AI bots. The site is a scam and a money pit. DO NOT USE IT. The guys are gorgeous but are probably fake.
22 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Mirka. We completely understand your frustration.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, investigate suspicious or fake profiles, and ensure you are not charged unfairly. Reporting these issues also helps protect other users and improve transparency, so others can avoid falling into similar traps.
Your feedback is important—it highlights how critical authenticity and fair billing are for a trustworthy platform.
Not a good experience …
It was not clear how to check how much was in my account or how to pay more. Igad to go through an email each time. I started talking to someone but kept running out of credits. I also found it very expensive and even though I was quite specific in that I only wanted to meet English men, none of the emails I received were ftom England. Also I specified an age range, but a lot were either older than I asked or very much younger. I ended up spending over £300 and ran out of credit very quickly.
10 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello, Helen, We understand your frustration and take concerns about unclear credit management, excessive costs, and mismatched matches very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can:
Review your account and credit usage
Clarify how credits are applied and assist with purchasing options if needed
Investigate the quality and accuracy of matches to ensure your preferences are respected
Providing screenshots of your transactions and interactions will help resolve the issue faster. Your feedback is important, as it highlights areas where transparency, fairness, and user experience need improvement.
Fake fake fake totally fake be careful
Fake fake fake totally fake be careful
12 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello! We understand your frustration and take reports of fake profiles very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review suspicious accounts, investigate unusual activity, and ensure your experience is safe, transparent, and secure. Reporting these issues also helps protect other users from scams and improves the platform overall.
I did sign up
I did sign up , believing, that at last I will find a place where I can build a honest relationship.
To my amusement, the basic payment , wasn't enough to write to several people , it last for three emails , so I bought another amount of credits , guess what (?) It last only for two emails. This company is a bottomless pit .
I will not recommend this site.
Bad experiences mostly from the unknown men.
5 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Hernan. We understand your frustration and take concerns about credit limits and unexpected charges very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, clarify how credits are applied, and ensure there are no ongoing issues with your subscription or payments. Providing screenshots of your credit usage and interactions will help them resolve the problem faster.
Your feedback is valuable, as it highlights areas where transparency, fairness, and genuine communication need improvement for all users.
Another fake platform like blaze
Another fake platform like blaze, only asks for money and has bots to chat and nothing more
6 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Ryan, We understand your frustration and take reports of fake platforms, bots, and misleading charges very seriously. Accounts or automated interactions designed to pressure users into spending violate platform policies and harm user trust.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, investigate suspicious or bot-driven interactions, and ensure no further unauthorized charges occur. Reporting these issues also helps protect other users and improve the platform’s transparency and authenticity.
Too expensive kerp buying credits and then they stop you talking
I had messages from a lovely guy called David. I couldn't reply to him as they kerp charging excessive credits and I run out. I noticed other people have had the same problem
Tracey haines
3 June 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi. We understand your frustration and take concerns about excessive credit charges very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, clarify how credits are used, and help ensure that your subscription and credit purchases are being applied correctly. Providing screenshots of your messages and credit usage will help them resolve the issue more quickly.
Your feedback is important and helps highlight areas where the platform could improve transparency and fairness for all users.
AI written waste of time scam
Signed up out of curiosity (using one of my accounts that I use for nonsense like this). Easy sign up, nbd...I didn't even upload a photo, and started getting video requests immediately from 'men' who were all handsome, in my age group (ish), et cetera. So I went and looked at profiles. Every single one of them was clearly written by either an AI or someone whose first language was not English (there are tell tale signs in the construction of sentences, even if they're grammatically correct). Every profile had the same tone, and has clearly been written (probably by AI or AI assist) to appeal to women in my age group. SCAM SCAM SCAM.
15 May 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
We completely understand your frustration and take reports of AI-generated or misleading profiles very seriously.
Please report any suspicious accounts to the Customer Success Team—they can investigate, remove inauthentic profiles, and ensure the platform maintains a safe and transparent environment. Your feedback is important, as it helps protect other users and highlights where improvements in authenticity and trustworthiness are needed.
SCAM
SCAM! SCAM! SCAM. Spent 60 bucks in one day to communicate with what I believed to be real singles. 60 bucks is ridiculous!!! The credits just kept running out aftwr a few messages and the site held the "conversations" for ranson until you paid up again. Some of the reputable sites don't even charge 60 dollars a month for their monthly subscriptions. So 60 in one day should be illegal. Shame on anyone affiliated with this SCAM of a dating sight. May God have mercy on your souls taking advantage of REAL single women who are looking for REAL connections with REAL people.
25 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Nikki. We completely understand your frustration, and we take reports of misleading billing and fake interactions very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team immediately—they can:
Review your account and transaction history
Confirm any unauthorized charges and help process refunds if applicable
Investigate suspicious or fake profiles
Providing screenshots of charges or interactions will help resolve the issue faster. Your feedback is crucial—it helps protect other users and improve transparency and fairness across the platform.
This is a total scam
This is a total scam. DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME. for starters, they get you to sign up for one month for 35 euros, then as you start conversing (soon to realize it's AI talking and not the guy) they want more money (the same night you just purchased the first month worth of credit! so, no thank you, it's impossible to build any kind of meaningful relationships. Oh, and the funny thing is, they have videos of not so good looking guys showing up on the side just to make sure that you believe this is real! What a scam!!!!!
29 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi! We understand your frustration and take reports of misleading profiles, AI-driven interactions, and credit-based limitations very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, confirm your subscription status, and investigate any suspicious activity. Providing screenshots or details of the interactions will help ensure your concerns are resolved quickly.
Your feedback is valuable in protecting other users and improving transparency and trust on the platform.
its all fake
its all fake
such a rip off you will go broke before you get finished with a conversation. and im a female trash
28 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Nica. We understand your frustration and take concerns about fake profiles and excessive charges very seriously. Accounts or messages that misrepresent themselves violate platform policies and can make the experience feel exploitative.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review suspicious accounts, investigate unusual credit usage, and ensure your subscription is properly managed. Reporting these issues helps protect other users and improves the platform’s transparency, safety, and fairness.
Don’t trust this site
Don’t trust this site. They don’t have an app. Membership is not based on per month. You buy credits to read emails. For USD 20 you get 20 credits. Each email 10 credits
10 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Surinder. We understand your frustration and take concerns about credit-based billing very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account, clarify how credits are applied, and ensure you are only charged correctly for your usage. Your feedback about transparency and pricing is important, as it helps improve the clarity and fairness of the platform for all users.
Rip off
Rip off. I would rather be single than poor because they kept asking me to buy credit. I joined last night and had conversations this morning with two people through email and chat, and I sent replying emails to one person. I spent AUD 129.21 in three hours.
The first purchase was upon becoming a member, and while chatting, I was required to top up credit to continue sending my message. After sending my message, they told me I needed to purchase credits. I thought my recent payment must be unsuccessful, so I clicked the button and was able to read the response, and that's it; they notified me that I ran out of credits. I do not RECOMMEND our love. Stay away from this site
8 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Nieke. We understand your frustration and take concerns about credit usage very seriously. The credit-based system is designed for messaging and premium features, but it can feel restrictive if it runs out quickly.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review your account activity, clarify how credits were used, and guide you on using them efficiently. Sharing your transaction details will help them address any discrepancies and ensure your experience is as smooth and transparent as possible.
A SCAM
This is a scam...tried to delete my profile and stop notifications from them. On the internet it gives a number to call under ourlove.com. The number is 424-571-3454 and it is assigned to a woman who says that she has had identity theft and the company is using her number and she has an attorney. I don't get why her number is not taken off the internet and she keeps the number. BE CAREFUL!
5 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello! We understand your concern and take reports of fraudulent activity and misleading contact information very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team through the official platform channels—they can assist with deleting your profile, stopping notifications, and ensuring no further charges are applied to your account. Avoid calling unverified numbers you find online, as these may not be legitimate.
Reporting these issues also helps protect other users and ensures that the platform can address fraudulent or unsafe practices promptly.
Real scammers 
Definitely like mostly people if I can only give zero star with this shit is scammer. I haven’t tried to delete my account, but I have no intention at all to purchase any credits. In spite of your pursuing every day messaging me with guys lovely words, tempting me to purchase credits. No way shame on you.
And to others reviewers I’m sorry to hear your sad story but thanks for sharing. Take care. Hope we all find a decent apps Dating apps take care.
16 February 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello, Evita. We understand your frustration and take reports of misleading profiles very seriously. Accounts or messages designed to pressure users into spending violate platform policies.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can assist with deleting your account, ensure you are not charged any further, and review suspicious profiles. Reporting these issues also helps protect other users and improve the platform’s transparency and safety.
Your caution and feedback are important, and we hope you find a dating app that is genuinely safe and respectful of its users.
100% scam
100% scam
Only text a few words was charged 19.9 USD
Then keep asking to pay to read any messages or mails.
Really bad!!! So only in only 10 minutes, I have to pay another time to purchase credit.
Will not recommend it. Don’t fall! All their photos are not real. And they start to send you the language of your country but all the answers are not what you ask so you can’t communicate with anyone, even some AI guys start to emotional blackmail you to send you : why are you ignoring me, I am so sad. Those kinda stupid messages, I have registered two weeks ago and just now I send to their online customer service to cancel my subscription because I do not want to be charged again on this vampire dating website, too heartless, they set AI with perfect profiles that according to your age and 90% of them are pilots. Doctors. Lawyers lol 😂 I knew it was fake only by reading those silly profile, but if I didn’t pay how would I know more? I paid and in 10 minutes my 19.9 USD was vanished! They made a lot of money if anyone really was hooked by their tricks, after I canceled subscription you know what happened, I could read those AI messages again because they tried so hard to let you think you are popular, in reality is that this is a 100% scam website. After I read if I try to reply and of course again the payment box shows up and my credit card information is still right there even I canceled my mentorship so please be careful! I’ll keep checking with the customer service of that heartless website until I knew my credit card information is completely wiped ! Too bad ! We should report government fraud!
30 January 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hello! We understand your frustration and take reports of unauthorized charges, fake profiles, and AI-driven interactions very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team immediately—they can:
Confirm your subscription cancellation and stop any future charges
Review your account and transaction history to ensure no further unauthorized payments occur
Assist with removing any saved payment information from the platform
Providing screenshots of charges and interactions will help them resolve the issue faster. Reporting these concerns also helps protect other users and ensures the platform can address fraudulent or misleading activity.
Reply from Ourlove
Hello. We understand your concern and take reports of fake or misleading profiles very seriously. Accounts that misrepresent themselves violate platform policies and can undermine the trust of genuine users.
Please contact our Customer Success Team—they can review suspicious accounts, investigate potential scams, and help ensure your experience is safe, transparent, and authentic. Reporting these issues also helps protect other users.
Fake/Scam
Fake, scam, déception !!!!! and i have been trying to cancel subscription or delete my account there but i cant since 2 days now. What can I do to get this cancellation ? Please help
13 January 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, Corinne. We understand your frustration and take account cancellation and subscription concerns very seriously.
Please contact our Customer Success Team immediately—they can assist with canceling your subscription, deleting your account, and confirming that no further charges will occur. Make sure to provide your account details and any screenshots of your attempts; this will help them resolve the issue as quickly as possible and secure your account.
Keeping taking my $ i can't read massages or respond
Keeping taking my $
10 January 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from Ourlove
Hi, thank you for the feedback. We’re very sorry to hear about this issue.
Please contact our Customer Success Team immediately—they can review your account, stop any ongoing charges, and help resolve the problem so you can access your messages. Providing screenshots or payment details will help them address the issue quickly and ensure your account is secure.
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