There Are Positives, but Fit and Trust Matter
Our experience with Riverbend was mixed. There is no question in my mind that the Head of School cares deeply about the school and has put a tremendous amount of herself into it. I also believe there are families and children for whom Riverbend can be a very good fit. For a period of time, we felt it was a good fit for our child as well.
There were positives. The smaller environment meant our child received a good amount of one-on-one attention, and I can see how that would be very appealing to many families.
Academically, though, we did not find the program as strong as we had hoped or expected from an independent school. Our bigger concern over time was the culture. We experienced what we felt was clear favouritism, and the internal politics and close relationships within the school gradually affected our level of trust. We also had concerns about confidentiality and whether information shared in confidence was always handled as carefully as we would have expected.
For me, that is where independent education ultimately comes down to fit and trust. Families are making a significant financial commitment, but an even bigger commitment when it comes to their child. One of the realities of private education is that parents can ultimately vote with their pocketbook. If you no longer feel confident in the academics, culture or overall environment, it is reasonable to decide that another option is better for your family.
That is what we eventually did, and unfortunately the way our departure was handled became one of the most disappointing parts of our experience. Once we made the decision to leave, we increasingly felt discounted as parents and less involved in decisions and communication around our own child. That was difficult because, regardless of whether a family is staying or leaving, I believe parents should continue to feel respected and included in their child’s education right through the transition.
At times, the way we were dealt with after making our decision felt unnecessarily petty to us. It was particularly disappointing because our decision to leave was not intended as a personal criticism of anyone. We were simply making the decision we believed was best for our child. I had hoped that could have been respected and that the relationship could have ended on a more positive and professional note.
We ultimately moved our child into the public school system, and our child is thriving. For us, that has reinforced that leaving was the right decision.
I would not suggest that our experience will be everyone else’s. There are clearly families who are very happy at Riverbend, and I respect that. My advice to prospective parents would simply be to visit, ask a lot of questions, speak with both current and former families, and pay close attention to whether the culture feels right for you.
We appreciated some aspects of our time there, particularly the individual attention, but ultimately our concerns around academics, favouritism, confidentiality and trust outweighed those positives for our family.

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