Swinglifestyle Reviews 25

TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Stay away from this site! There are better ones out there. They have a lot of nit-picky rules that other swing sites don't have! They accuse people of "spamming" when they're not spamming and suspend... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Recently site removed all photos over 5 years old, except for staff members who don't appear to enjoy having their hypocrisy called out.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Worst experience with a dating site ever! I haven't even been on this site for a month, and they already suspended my "paying" profile for a week because they claim asking for other people's contact i... See more

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

We are couple M29 F27 we are well educated and young couple we are open minded we looking for good frnds we like partys club anybody contact us

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  1. Adult Dating Service
  2. Adult entertainment club
  3. Dating service

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Create a free account and meet real life swingers through adults personals, clubs, parties and more. Everything you need to start your sexual revolution.


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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The app is run by control maniacs. I'm not exaggerating

They monitor absolutely all your messages, they moderate some of them and they often block people for innocent things. We decided to go with a site that had respectful attitude to their paying customers – AFMeets.com
It literally took us two weeks to to get exactly what we wanted, to meet the kind of people we were looking for. By the way despite all the despotism of SwingLifeStyle, it's still overloaded with fake profiles and scammers from all over the globe. They can blatantly ask you for money and they never get banned for it. I suspect they might be just the so-called in-house profiles.

13 February 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Hypocrites Be Us

Recently site removed all photos over 5 years old, except for staff members who don't appear to enjoy having their hypocrisy called out.

8 February 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Random rule enforcement

The "support team" randomly decides if pics are "too explicit" to post. I see people with pics of holding their "tools" or fingering themselves, and yet I/we have pics rejected that are partially nude with our hands in the air!

5 October 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The app is run by control maniacs. I'm not exaggerating

They monitor absolutely all your messages, they moderate some of them and they often block people for innocent things. We decided to go with a site that had respectful attitude to their paying customers – AFPassion.com
It literally took us two weeks to to get exactly what we wanted, to meet the kind of people we were looking for. By the way despite all the despotism of SwingLifeStyle, it's still overloaded with fake profiles and scammers from all over the globe. They can blatantly ask you for money and they never get banned for it. I suspect they might be just the so-called in-house profiles.

2 October 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Always issues trying to log on

Always issues trying to log on. I"ve jumped through too many hoops and still no good reasons. Total BS!
No Customer Service.
Poorly designed site when and if you get logged on.
They should sell out to someone who knows what their doing.

19 December 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Terrible website

Terrible website, people that using it probably just don't know about Kasidie, SDC and other sites. Tech support is terrible, the design looks like it was made 20 years ago, but most importantly, the creators of the site don't care about users, both simple consumers of content and small companies organizing events. While Kasidie sent us their business cards, pens, bracelets and other nice bonuses, offered a loyalty program and free VIP status, swinglifestyle offered us to advertise their site at our parties, keep their banner on our website and we should post our events on their miserable website without a link to our website and without our banner for six months and only then will they consider us as partners... don't waste your time with these extortionists.

16 August 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The site is a total mess

The site is a total mess. It doesn't actually work and there is no one to explain why it is broken. They are a sex site and a solely threre to collect money. They do not care about the experience or the memebers. If they did, they would not charge hundreds of dollars for a site that doesn't work.

14 February 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

These bigots changed my gender

These bigots changed my gender identity on the site against my will. I’m legally a woman. But these fascists decided to ruin my day. SLS is transphobic and should be shut down. They prolly bad in bed. All bigots are. They can have their bad sex lol

8 December 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have been in this site on and off for…

I have been in this site on and off for the past ten years. In the last year and a half, I have had recurring issues in paying. When I finally get to pay, i have to use ccbill. But, as soon as the charge is taken, the service is canc elled. GThis means I have to renew every single month. I have contacted sls numerous times and they could care less about solving my problem. They just want my money and the hell with anything else, including decent service. DO NOT subscribe to this service. It is shamelessly incompetent!

30 October 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Depressing Experience

The company does not work to eliminate spammers or identity thieves. They allow blatant racism. They do not make dating easier; most messages are from people who do not match preferences.

Blocking does not work. Terrible experience overall.

20 September 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Banned me for being transgender

They took my profile offline because some transphobic people said I was rude. But I can’t write anyone with a free account. And my profile was approved. So what’s offensive? My existence? I won’t apologize for existing. They are not for LGTQ+ people. Zero stars if I could.

21 August 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Real review of 8 years on the site

Real review of 8 years on the site. It is not a scam, but it is a terribly run site. So many complaints but the biggest one is they screen everything by using volunteers and they will boot you off the site for minor things that you post that are exactly what they tell you to post! For example: in the experiences section the site tells you to post clubs you attend and when you do you are removed from the site for advertising. You can get removed for saying you like So-n-So group. I just had an experience where one Support Person told me to do this and when I did I was kicked off the site by another Support Person. Way to controlling and the mechanics of the site are horrible anyway. Go with another site that actually is nice to the paying customers and has better programmers.

12 April 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Not worth it.

Sorry app. Nothing but fakes. And those who want to control the situation and change your current relationship situation with your spouse. All about them. Better to just watch porn and enjoy the one you with. And I'm twice a lifetime member waste of hard earned money.

1 February 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dont waste your time on this site rated -10

BEWARE... lots an lots of scammers on this site we done our owne survey here we gathered up 11 different couples started typeing a relatively sexy note to each couple explaining what we like what we didn't like you know how about dinner that kind of stuff we have one to reply and right start off it we threw a red flag the people on here aren't trustworthy there's nothing but a bunch of scammers and fakes and people that want to talk and do nothing that's why I think they should rename this site to "players lifestyle" it would be the perfect name for this site

18 January 2023
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

They randomly shut down your acct!

Worst app for alt lifestyles! It's a glitchy app with loads of tech issues, but I'm more upset at the people operating the app. They randomly shut off your acct, claiming you violated some guideline, and then send you blank/empty support messages so you have no idea what you did wrong. And when you bounce those back to them, they still don't explain what you did. They've done this to me 3 times now so I'm done with them! I'm so angry that I paid for 3 months! What a waste of my time and money! Use Feeld or Fetlife--waaaay cheaper, no tech issues, and no random/inexplicable shut offs for theoretical violations.

21 November 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

perpetual service tickets. Nothing gets done

Just a glympse of the complaints submitted by members. Like a broken record the complaints are the same from month to month.
If you dont care that a website charges you to play and does not maintain its services, then this is the adult site for you.

Complaints from the past few weeks.....
• reported an hour ago by Pimpin661
Not loading
• reported an hour ago by crazyhorsecpl
cant access or send member messages. when you click it just goes to old messages which you cant acess. Goes to recipient name and doesnt populate. Please fix your website
• reported an hour ago by crazyhorsecpl
this seems to be everyday thing now, not sure why people pay for this site
• reported 2 hours ago by FloridasFunCouple69
Chat appears to be struggling loading SLS profiles.
• reported 2 hours ago by ColonelandCherry
I heard a joke on here. What time is it? Time to fix the chat rooms again!
• reported 2 hours ago by Njscubacouple
Fix the issues please. It’s been way too long
• reported 2 hours ago by Aneweek
rooms wont load
• reported 4 hours ago by forevertogether
Same ole same ole,....site broken..
• reported 5 hours ago by firsttimeaz7474
The entire site is messed up rooms are not loading, messages on the main page arent loading, cant even fill out a ticket under support on main page
• reported 15 hours ago by crazyhorsecpl
cant access rooms
• reported 16 hours ago by Crazy
Trying to access rooms again. This site seems to always have issues
• reported a day ago by ANN20
been 4 hrs & still no progress on fixing it ?
• reported a day ago by ANeweek
the site is not loading
• reported a day ago by johnnyontherocks
please fix
• reported a day ago by ANN20
room loads & you type , it does not show up . you hit refresh & it shows up but still keeps happening .
• reported a day ago by Wonderland2
The chat rooms are the main reason I pay for this site, I just renewed my membership here and I'm not be able to use what I'm paying for.... Very frustrating to say the least
• reported 2 days ago by smoothsailingcouple149
cant enter account please delete account entirely jaxx.xxxxxxd3xxatgmaildotcom
• reported 2 days ago by smoothsailingcple149
cant get into account
• reported 4 days ago by duke_rice
it does no good to send tickets here, they only go to the developer and he does not read then, we need to send them to the website then they will know there is a issue or nothing will get fixed
• reported 4 days ago by MistressLily_Ron
Cams not working, no text & blue circle
• reported 4 days ago by luvpleasnu69
My cam still shows on form last night!
• reported 5 days ago by forevertogether
Chat totally down AGAIN..wasnt this way two years again.
• reported 5 days ago by crazyhorsecpl
rooms shut down and cant get them to come up now
• reported 5 days ago by MistressLily_Ron
Cams still not loading
• reported 6 days ago by LoveBugCouple666
WDF with this site
• reported 6 days ago by flwm463
cams wont come up when i hit thed icon
• reported 7 days ago by Looking4you
cams are not working.. SURPRIZE!
• reported 8 days ago by Rampal55
constant problems with chat.
• reported 8 days ago by ColonelandCherry
blue circle is spinning and rooms do not open, perhaps clear the api requests? maybe clear them daily???
• reported 8 days ago by SA_Cpl
I can not get the cam to appear on some of the profile in cha
• reported 8 days ago by firsttimeaz7474
every room shows members name and they are not online
• reported 9 days ago by Justus
Cams are not working
• reported 10 days ago by ANN20
finally got on & now do not see what i type
• reported 10 days ago by Spicemaster
Rooms won't load
• reported 10 days ago by ANN20
was good for 2 day , & now constant not neing able 2 stay connected
• reported 10 days ago by johnnyontherocks
cams again
• reported 12 days ago by Tjupforfun
Won’t allow in
• reported 12 days ago by duke_rice
This is the worst running pile of sxit on the whole internet, every xucking day another issue
• reported 13 days ago by Curiouscpl306
on a mac and after last upgrade 2 weeks ago , chat is not functioning
• reported 13 days ago by wnycpl116
not all my cams are working some do some don't
• reported 13 days ago by crazyhorse
it shows cams on but when you access them nothing comes up
• reported 14 days ago by memphiscpl6977

30 October 2022
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Lifetime member but warn of all the new…

Lifetime member but warn of all the new rules! If you sign up you cannot do or view much. They will let you if you do a paid membership, but if you say or post anything that looks like a other message platform they lock you out until you change it and they feel like allowing you back.
The rules have gotten worse and the service has followed. The chat platform is so bad groups start elsewhere to chat because it is easier and more reliable.
I wish I had not paid for a lifetime!!

10 October 2022
Unprompted review

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