The Attractive Man Reviews 45

I wanted to share some positive feedback about the 3 day Bootcamp I recently attended in Manila, Philippines. Matt Artisan who worked with us was exceptional. His approach to teaching, especially around helping and approaching women, was clear, respectful, and genuinely effective.

He demonstrated a deep understanding of the subject and communicated everything in a way that felt both practical and empowering. In my experience, he is truly one of the best coaches in the US and possibly beyond.

I recently did one of the 3-day Natural Attraction bootcamps that the Attractive Man offers.

Prior to going to the bootcamp I worked with another dating coach that primarily consisted of online material. During that 5 month period I didn't acquire any phone numbers in person. I learned alot in general about dating, but it didn't directly translate into success.

During the bootcamp I approached dozens of women. I had genuine conversations with women. Moreover, now that I am back in my hometown I'm doing the exact same thing (the day I got back from the bootcamp I got a phone number). All of this without anything that is pick-up artisty or manipulative.

Matt's program emphasizes cultivating a positive mindset (because it directly translates to how you approach and interact with women) and taking action. As somebody that loves the gym I can appreciate this approach. You can talk about the gym, you can know everything about how to do it, but none of it matters unless you take action. You also have to have the confidence to keep pushing, which isn't always easy, but becomes easier the more consistent you are with your actions. Approaching women is not so different.

I also want to say that one of the best parts of his program is the guys in the program. Everybody at my bootcamp wanted to be there. We all exchanged contact info. Everybody had a growth mindset. The Attractive Man platform connects you with other guys who are trying to achieve these dating/lifestyle self improvement goals which I think is pretty cool. You are who you surround yourself with.

I recommend the program to anybody that struggles with approach anxiety and wants to improve themselves at the same time.

Matt has created an incredible program here to help men improve their social skills, self-esteem, and ability to interact with members of the opposite sex. He has fine tuned the art attracting members of the opposite sex. The tools he uses are based on common sense and help us put into practice what we know deep in our hearts to be true. Finding the attractive man was a life-changing event for me and I recommend the program highly!

Had an amazing bootcamp at playa del carmen, met some great people ! Would recommend it to anyone looking to boost their confidence with women and boost their social skill.

The Bootcamp has been an incredible experience.

Just finished the 7-Day Advanced Immersion Budapest bootcamp with Matt and it was amazing. I approached beautiful women in a fun, flirty and respectable way, went on multiple dates with multiple women, and built amazing bonds with the other guys in the bootcamp. The program teaches everything from inner work, to building deep attraction with women and gives you the tools and mind set to apply to your personal life. I find the in-field bootcamps and personalized coaching invaluable since you get customized feedback and learn not only how to attract women but also the process to build self-confidence, emotional intelligence, and how to have authentic deep connections with others. I am excited for the future knowing that I am able to confidently approach and talk to the women I want. I would definitely recommend The Attractive Man to anyone who’s not satisfied with their dating life. I only wished I did this many years ago.

This review is for the Connecting With Women workshop (CWW for short), run by Lynn Matalon. I just finished it four days ago.

I did this workshop because I have trouble coming off well on dates; instead of being charming and funny, which (I flatter myself) I am around friends, I feel stilted and awkward and stressed out, which is *deeply* unsexy. I also have a certain amount of totally general social anxiety which doesn't help.

CWW is mostly based around the concept of "you spend three days working one-on-one with a cast of pretty girls, vetted by Lynn on the basis of some combination of attractiveness, perceptiveness, and ability to provide detailed feedback. Together with these girls, you do structured exercises meant to develop comfort around being bold, being vulnerable, and expressing attraction." I'd go into much more detail, but the nature of a lot of these exercises is such that you want to go into them blind (which is why Lynn asked me not to discuss them in detail.)

About five days out from the end of the workshop, it feels like one of the most meaningful and intense experiences I've had over the past few years. Which sounds nuts (I mean, jesus, it's a three day workshop, come on), but honestly, how often do you get multiple days in a row of guided exposure therapy in going outside of your comfort zone? How often do you get to iterate on your personal bearing and mode of expression, with the help of detailed feedback from the girls you're speaking to?

And good lord, the feedback. I have never received such intensive and detailed critiques of so many aspects of my bearing and actions. Some were quite flattering! Some, *significantly* less flattering. Some of the feedback I would classify using words like "brutal" or possibly "savage." But generally the messages were clear and actionable, and as the weekend wore on I found myself much more relaxed even with the models I'd never worked with before, even outside the structured exercises; and from the descriptions of both the models and the other guys I was coming off *much* better than when I entered.

Is this just a fleeting workshop high? Man, how should i know, it's just been a few days since this ended, get off my back. But it *feels* to me like something I should be able to parlay into a permanent bonus of +1 to charisma. Maybe +2, if I really push myself and play my cards right.

TL;DR: if you want to become as awesome on dates as the imaginary version of yourself who lives in your head but isn't allowed to do anything because you're nervous, you could do a *lot worse* than taking Lynn's Connecting With Women course.

I recently attended the Connecting with Women Workshop hosted by Lynn Matalon, and it was a game-changer. Lynn created a thoughtful and insightful program that addressed some of the core challenges I’ve been facing in connecting with women on a deeper, more intimate level. Through engaging activities and powerful discussions, I gained a clearer understanding of the barriers I’ve been encountering. If you’ve ever felt disconnected or struggled to form meaningful, authentic relationships with women, I highly recommend this workshop. It truly helped me unlock new ways to build genuine connections.

The book has no real value information and feels more like a hooker to all the other programs and courses they want to sell you within the process of buying the book (i remember the buying process Was annoying because they offered you lots of additional courses for extra money)

even now a year later they ask me if i want to join programs like they would be buddys although i asked them to erase my data before.

i do not recommend them!

The 2024 September Bootcamp that I attended was both an intense and an enjoyable experience for me. Lynn Matalon is one of the most down to earth women that you will ever meet and is an amazing teacher. I learned about what I need to work on not only when it comes to trying to meet women, but also when it comes to dating in general. I was challenged to leave my comfort zone throughout the entire experience and every time that I did that, it became easier and easier. This Bootcamp was so much more than just about learning how to approach women on the street and how to be a better date; I got to go to a city that I had never been to before, I learned how to enjoy nightlife even though I’m not really a club goer and I created memories with strangers going through the same journey that I am and I already want to see them again. I can’t remember the last time that I had this much fun.

While I encourage anyone that’s having a hard time dating to come to a bootcamp, these are definitely not for everybody. This experience will teach you things about yourself that even you didn’t know. You will need to be willing to change the ways in which you think, speak and behave; it’s insane how the littlest things can affect your chances for a date or if all goes well (and you like what you have learned about the lady), a relationship. Making a lot of money, having an reputable job, owning a home or an expensive car is impressive, but it’s ultimately how you present yourself to other people and how you live your life that truly makes you attractive. If you are willing to put in the time and effort for any of these things, this will be an experience that you can look back at and say, “I’m so glad I did that”. My only regret is that I didn’t do this sooner.

The people I’ve met and experiences I’ve had are unbelievable.

I just finished a bootcamp with Lynn in LA. And it was simply 72 hours of phenomenal moments. Every bootcamp I do, I see myself becoming capable of frankly unimaginable success. To go from being strangers to connecting with amazing, beautiful and inspiring women within a single conversation. You cannot put a price on how freeing that is.

Lynn is an amazing human being. And there is no doubt in my mind that she wants what is best for the people who are lucky enough to come her way.

Firstly, I would like to talk about the program, I joined unleashed mentorship in January and since then I have seen major changes in myself, be it my self confidence, interacting with women and people or just putting myself out there. Everything has been great, the coaches know what they are doing and are ready to help you with anything, you have to trust the process.

The May 24th-26th Bootcamp was amazing, the model work, lectures and infield work were all helpful in various ways, I cannot thank Lynn enough for all the help and feedback she and the models gave me, I am definitely going to take all this and work on them.
It is a life changing experience and anyone who is struggling with connecting and talking to women should join TAM.

LA Bootcamp March 8-10, 2024

I little review of my past weekend experience. Look Lynn Matalon is a humble master of energy and thoughtfulness. This boot camp was my third with her. Each bootcamp is a new experience. There is a bond that is made between you and each attendee. Curiosity is formed. I am grateful to continue my journey to make beautiful connections with so many people. My life has become bountiful, fun and exciting.

Lynn and her models won’t hold back on your feedback. Lynn knows you better than you know yourself. She will help you realize the thing that is holding you back from making genuine connections. Her experience in life has created today’s version of herself. It is so freaking awesome. I saw other men grow within only a couple of days. If you are struggling with connection, if you are afraid to talk to people, if you want to find out why you sabotage your relationships, you need to have this experience.

Change your life and sign up today. The weather is getting good.

I wanted to take a moment to recognize how profoundly this course has impacted me. When I came to my first bootcamp in early December, I felt like I couldn't connect with another human being. I was tired. I was confused. And I was really f'k'n angry.

I won't go into the circumstances that caused that. But believe me when I say that I was justified in being there. But I was at a low point. And I was looking for a solution. This course has changed the way that I look at the world, and changed the way that I look at myself. In the process, it has fundamentally altered the quality of my life.

I took out a beautiful woman tonight. And she really liked me. But so much more importantly, I really liked her. I had fun. It felt easy. I enjoyed listening to her and interacting with her. We connected, on a deeper level. And, at the end of the date, when she left my house, I was really excited to see her again.

See, my journey has been a little different. I've dealt with a lot of grief and shame. At times, I really just didn't think that I could be part of a civilized society. I couldn't look women that I liked in the eye. Everything seemed foreign to me. But Chris Fetters has been an incredible blessing to my life. And he asked that I schedule a lifeline call with Aaron Nuñez. And, faaaak. He gave me so much more than that. We spent HOURS on multiple calls. And he began to peel back the layers of my grief. And for the first time in a very long time, I just feel so light. Like myself again. And all of the things that I've wanted for a long time have just kind of gravitated toward me. And I am so grateful for that.

Friday night, I had a girl come over that I really like. Tonight, I took out a Ukranian ballerina, who, astonishingly, I really like. And, tomorrow, I'm going back out with the lingerie model that I just can't get enough of.

Let's zoom back 90 days, when I started this program. I didn't "really like" anyone. Men, friends, and self included.

So I just want to take a moment to blow the horn of self-improvement, changed mindset, and really good advice from really good people. Thank you guys for allowing me to be a part of this course. And thank you all for the amazing and (hopefully) irreversible impact that you have had on my life. I am so glad that I took action, and made the choice to change things in my life.

Thank you again to Chris Fetters, Aaron Nuñez, and Lynn Matalon. Without you guys, none of this would have been possible. I am so deeply grateful. Specifically, thank you all for the many hours that I wasn't entitled to, that I didn't pay for, and that went well beyond our scheduled time. It is clear that this program is not about profiting from clients, but giving them what they need -- no matter how time intensive that may be.

FOR ALL OF YOU GUYS WHO ARE UNSURE OF YOUR NEXT STEPS ... I would ask you. What would 15% more happiness in your life look like? And, more importantly, what is it worth?

The team has been transforming the dating lives of shy, lonely, disconnected guys(like me before) for more than a decade already. I am now married with my officemate and will always be grateful for their coaching programs. It's all worth it!

The Attractive Man Team is a great group of trainers who are super honest and skilled! I can confidently say that it has been a game-changer in my dating life. From the moment I signed up for their services, I felt supported, empowered, and guided towards meaningful connections.

The coaching team at The Attractive Man is a group of passionate, knowledgeable, and empathetic individuals who genuinely care about their students' success. They took the time to understand my unique personality, dating history, and goals. I highly recommend working with them.

It’s legit. 28 year old guy. I did the in-field bootcamp and my confidence soared. Yeah it’s expensive (about $5k) but totally, totally worth it. I’d pay for it again. The program they have you follow, the morning routines, the coaching calls, the support, the follow up, the in-person stuff…it fundamentally changed me as a man. That confidence was felt with girls for sure, but I wasn’t expecting how much better I felt at work too and in most other social situations. Do it. It might feel weird or awkward at first, but it’s so worth it.

Life changing. No other programs are as comprehensive or as honesty based. This is the only choice.

WOW! … I literally have the words. This was LIFE CHANGING. It shattered my expectations, it pushed me beyond what I thought I was capable of. Lynn is a total bad ass and her encouragement is gold. I consider myself a hard case, and I was fearful of approaching. But with a group of brothers and Lynn leading the way, it makes it so much easier. I’ve learned so much and grown so much from this weekend. I can’t say enough other than just go for it. Take action and change your life and have no regrets.

Amazing program .. Very well thought out,transformational