VioletDates Reviews 143

TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

3.6

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Evaluating 83 reviews, most reviewers were somewhat happy with their experience overall. Customers generally appreciate the staff, describing them as respectful and helpful, especially with billing inquiries. Many people find the interactions on the platform to be genuine and engaging, with several users enjoying their conversations and the ease of connecting with others. However, a significant number of people were dissatisfied with the website and its pricing structure. Reviewers frequently mention that the site is too expensive, requiring payment for basic features like sending replies or viewing messages, and that the payment model is geared towards maximizing profit. Some customers also felt that the user experience was questionable, with concerns about transparency, the inability to exchange personal details, and concerns about the authenticity of some profiles and interactions.

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Lots of interactions.. I mean I dont use online apps but its a lot to handle or its ok.. but for any little move.. like sending a reply or mail you need to pay. Its not for having sonekind of social... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I'm not sure how I'm feeling about site ? I didn't realize all the men are not in the US ? It would make it very difficult to meet for a date when I'm in Arizona USA, and he's in Ukraine ,?

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I am new on the platform but I found it interesting cas immediately I was connected and got to start chatting to my matches

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  1. Dating service

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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.


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3.6

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TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Beautiful women and hot talk

Beautiful women and hot talk

11 June 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Jesus,

Sounds like you're enjoying the chats — glad to hear it's been a good time so far!

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is NOT a (legitimate) dating site where people get together!

This is NOT a dating site! They are a chat service where you pay an exorbitant price to talk to employees of the site who try to get you to waste credits so you need to keep buying more. At $500, credits are as ridiculous as the 5000 credits required to be spent only on one user, before being allowed to exchange contact information. Otherwise, their filtering system filters messages and regularly blocks normal correspondence as has been happening to me. Customer service was non-responsive and instead of a refund, just kept sending me emails intended to stall, since I was already chatting with customer service. And since nothing is guaranteed and women still choose if they just want to profit from or meet someone, it’s not worth it since no one ever got together on violetdates. 5000 credits would cost over $1,250 and take half a year, just to supposedly get a phone number, but it’s not guaranteed and it’s like you’re just starting to talk to that person again at that point.

So Violetdates is not being honest in saying they romance “to unfold at your own pace”. They DICTATE the pace (after you spend 5000 credits- $1,250). But like other reviews have noted, the “women” are NOT fellow paying users and are incentivized to get men to spend their credits. So I doubt getting contact information will matter at all because before they implemented their “content moderation system” aka- filter, I got the number to a dozen Ukrainian women. Of that, I got a dozen requests for money and didn’t meet anyone. So don’t bother, and don’t believe violetdates’ predatory and misleading claims. As a long time business analyst for a well known Fortune 500 bellwether that obviously will remain unnamed, I can however, put forth my professional assessment that Violetdates’ business model and operations seem solely focused on profit and extracting revenue from the “men”, who are the only paying “users”, with and by the efforts of the “women”. Their voracious enthusiasm for wanting to correspond with and engage romantically with an 83 year old man with no profile photo by 20 to 30 year olds who all give the exact same “age is just a number” explanation and rationale, makes it abundantly clear that “women” have no realistic expectations of ever meeting or actually being in a romantic relationship. It’s just not normal as the rule rather than the exception of all 20-30 yr olds. And the fact that they remain “logged on” and ready & available to reply around the clock, 24/7, 7d/wk, 52wk/yr, 12mnths/yr in and yr out can only mean they are either very motivated and incentivized (get paid well, OR there’s the other possibility that hundreds of stunningly beautiful 19,20,21, 22, 23 and up year olds are ALL solely obsessed with seducing an 83 yr old with no photo romantically, flirting sexually and sending explicit nude and anatomically revealing photos.) Possible? Sure it is, Remember Anna Nicole Smith married the 87 yr old billionaire? I’m closer to 38 than 83, but they don’t know that since i don’t have a profile pic and multi millionaire is good enough for now since I have lots of time still. But is it probable, practical, or even plausible that even one from each age from 19 and up, gets humid down south from a 83 yr old BF? 64 years older? I doubt it! But that obviously wasn’t considered because the flawed business model was based on maximal profit, and NOT “allowing romance to blossom naturally and comfortably” or whatever it was that they said that sounded so good, like a normal dating site. But the problem here is Violentaints. Violetdates is NOTHING like a normal dating site. And in their promotional pitch, they don’t mention anything about the true facts of the site. Now, why is that guys? Nothing about the arbitrary filtering software that blocks your messages and doesn’t tell you, even though it’s normal conversation? And nothing about requiring only men having to pay $200 to &500 for enough credits for carrying on a conversation with “women” who constantly try to make you open pictures, videos , and emails (for 50 credits each $12.50 , in addition to each text costing $2.50)? And most of all, why nothing about the 5,000 credit requirement, YES FIVE THOUSAND! Spent with ONE/EACH “woman” before you’re allowed to exchange contact information, but that guarantees NOTHING since the person or “woman” was texting for profit all along as was admitted to me by no less than four “women” who called VD their “job” (remember the 19 year olds interested in the 83 year old and how “women” are either “on duty” around the clock (perhaps because they’re AI chat bots) which would explain their long hours “on duty logged on” (just check how often their green light indicator is on. Hint: it rarely turns off. And if so, ALWAYS turns on if you send a text. Don’t those “women” sleep?

30 April 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Lorin,

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with such detail. We understand that you’ve raised a number of important concerns, and we want to assure you that your feedback is being taken seriously.

We’ve already directed your case to the appropriate internal teams for further review, and we’ll keep you informed as we assess the issues you mentioned. Our goal is to maintain a respectful and transparent environment, and your input plays a valuable role in helping us do that.

If you’d like to share any additional details or speak further with our support team, please don’t hesitate to contact us directly at support@violetdates.com—we’re here to help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Look how your money vanish...

The top female user "just forgot" to whom she was speaking and what we discussed 10 hours ago; it seems that the second shift arrived, and the new website employee was not aware... They have a pattern: system icebreaker (90% sexual); then, audio/video file (in the chat window); afterward, a letter with a pack of pictures. All in one: 2 credits/message in chat + 10 credits + 50 credits (audio/video) + 90 credits pictures attached to the 1st letter + 30 credits subsequent letters + 90 credits other pictures pack to each letter... and counting! This is a nice business, my friends!
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Follow up: the company which runs VioletDates asked for more details, to verify that I’ve had a genuine experience with their business. Foremost, this means: my e-mail address, my full name and phone number! Now... come on! Why do they need my full personal information? This also breaks the rules of protection of personal data! They threaten me that if not, the company may not recognize my review as genuine - as if I care! I only wanted to advise other men to be cautious with such misleading dating platforms. I have nothing else to prove, nor do I owe them anything, so take care!

27 April 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Ro,

Thanks for sharing your detailed feedback with us. We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. Communication on the platform is designed to offer a variety of features, each with its own credit cost, so users can choose what works best for them. Profile authenticity is very important to us, and we encourage users to report any behavior that seems suspicious or inconsistent.

We want to emphasize that our request for additional details was made with the sole intention of contacting you directly and better understanding your experience. We take feedback like yours very seriously and would like to review your case more thoroughly to better understand what happened and take any necessary actions. Please contact us directly at support@violetdates.com so our team can investigate your situation in detail and assist you further. Your experience is important to us, and we’re committed to providing a safe and genuine environment for all users.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Guys save your money the ladies are all…

Guys save your money the ladies are all fake , they tell you what you want to hear . They will only talk on that site and use fake pics

1 April 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Brett,

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We’re sorry to hear that your experience felt disappointing. The authenticity of communication is something we take seriously — all profiles are reviewed in line with our Terms of Use, and we have systems in place to help identify and prevent misuse.

If you’ve come across behavior that felt suspicious or misleading, we encourage you to report it directly through the platform or contact our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can investigate further. Your input helps us maintain the safety and integrity of the community.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I love the atmosphere here

I love the atmosphere here! It's so vibrant and inviting, and the conversations are always fun and effortless.

5 March 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Sienna,

That’s amazing to hear! Hope you continue enjoying the positive vibes and great chats.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

beautiful viktoriia

beautiful viktoriia

14 March 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Amani,

Sounds like you’ve had a great interaction! Wishing you more wonderful conversations ahead.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

An ideal service for those who want…

An ideal service for those who want engaging conversations or just to unwind after a long day.

5 March 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Mollie,

Happy to hear the platform is giving you a great space to chat and relax. Enjoy the experience!

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Really great that security is taken…

Really great that security is taken seriously. I haven't received any weird or suspicious messages.

4 March 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi John,

Glad to hear you’re having a safe and comfortable experience! Enjoy your chats.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This app fake scam never replay my…

This app fake scam never replay my email wish wood make app so delete account two easy

5 March 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Tim,

We’re sorry to hear about your experience. If you need assistance with your account or have any unresolved concerns, please reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com. They will be happy to assist you as soon as possible.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

False site

Most of the women are false - and they have a method of you spending credits = money for only speaking, sending pictures.
The reviews are false as well.

27 February 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi MA,

We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. Ensuring a safe and engaging environment is important to us, and we take profile authenticity seriously. While our platform offers premium features for enhanced interactions, all users have the freedom to choose how they engage with others.

If you’ve come across any suspicious activity or have concerns about specific profiles, we encourage you to reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can review the situation. Your feedback is valuable, and we appreciate you sharing your thoughts.

Kindly,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

It is really kind of scary meeting new…

It is really kind of scary meeting new people but I'm single for a while and I hate being by myself

31 January 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Richard,

We totally understand that meeting new people can feel a bit scary, but it’s great that you’re putting yourself out there! Wishing you meaningful connections and great conversations ahead.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The woman I'm talking

The woman I'm talking , To Is very intriguing And would like to speak to her.
And meet if possible

25 January 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi James,

Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s great to hear you’ve found someone so intriguing to connect with. We hope your conversations continue to grow into something meaningful. Wishing you all the best!

Warm regards,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Fantastic

Fantastic, easy to access unlike other sites.

9 January 2025
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Miraj,

Thanks for the kind words! We’re thrilled to hear you’re finding the platform easy to access—it’s great to know it stands out for you.

Cheers,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Nice site Nice people

Nice site Nice people

14 December 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Charles,

Thanks for the kind words! We’re so glad to hear you’re enjoying the site and connecting with great people.

Cheers,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

this is a scam

violatdates ukraine where i have been for long time is no more then a huge scam, it is not about meet your love no no it is only about get men to spend more and more expensive credits it is never lead to a meeting. customer for over a year and put lot of money on creds on one lady time to time but when it comes to try meet after been spending houndreds of euro you ask to go somewhere to change adress that lead to a meeting you always get to hear "no i want to stay here" where you can not change privat information. sp please all men stop by creds it all about you to pay more and more creds that lead to nothing.

13 December 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Kenneth,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. We’re sorry to hear that your experience on the platform has not met your expectations. Our goal is to provide a space where meaningful connections can be made, and the credit system is designed to support features that enhance those interactions.

We encourage you to reach out to us at support@violetdates.com with any specific concerns or feedback about your interactions or account. Our team is here to listen, assist, and ensure the platform works effectively for everyone.

Kind regards,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I just got played they are only here to…

I just got played they are only here to take your money its cost 3000-4000 euro to get contact info on lady you have to use 5000 credits to get contact info on the woman the on that played me is i Can put up photo dont want others to get played and lose money

1 October 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Dear Brian,

Thank you for taking the time to give us your feedback.

You need credits to access certain services on our platform, but don't worry, you only pay for the services you use. You can choose the services that interest you the most and control your spending.

Every request is carefully handled by our moderation, finance and technical teams, and our customer service is available around the clock. Maintaining this level of quality comes at a cost, which is why we charge for some services.

If you want to manage your expenses efficiently, we offer several options. Contact us at support@violetdates.com, and we'll be happy to help you.

Best Wishes,
VioletDates Customer Support

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The response I get

The response I get

31 August 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Dear User,

Thanks for taking the time to share your feedback with us, we really appreciate it.
We hope you enjoy communicating with your pen pals.

Best Wishes,
VioletDates Customer Support

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The way the pilot company got…a scale of a new experience I llgive9

The way the pilot company got everything done so quickly I have already been through a lot but my first time experiencing this inc. Threw me off the road thank you so much for giving me a chance to get back with this one retired Lady.

3 August 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Dear Manuel,

We appreciate your positive feedback about our service!
We wish you a pleasant time on our platform!

Best Wishes,
VioletDates Customer Support

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The interface is clear

It's not just a dating site, it's a place where you can really meet someone special. The interface is clear and I quickly found interesting people to chat with

2 July 2024
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Reply from VioletDates

Dear Seger,

We're pleased that you have chosen our platform and leave your positive feedback. Have fun communicating with your pen pals!

Best Wishes,
VioletDates Customer Support

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