bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be... See more
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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
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Reply from VioletDates
This is NOT a dating site! They are a chat service where you pay an exorbitant price to talk to employees of the site who try to get you to waste credits so you need to keep buying more. At $500, credits are as ridiculous as the 5000 credits required to be spent only on one user, before being allowed to exchange contact information. Otherwise, their filtering system filters messages and regularly blocks normal correspondence as has been happening to me. Customer service was non-responsive and instead of a refund, just kept sending me emails intended to stall, since I was already chatting with customer service. And since nothing is guaranteed and women still choose if they just want to profit from or meet someone, it’s not worth it since no one ever got together on violetdates. 5000 credits would cost over $1,250 and take half a year, just to supposedly get a phone number, but it’s not guaranteed and it’s like you’re just starting to talk to that person again at that point.
So Violetdates is not being honest in saying they romance “to unfold at your own pace”. They DICTATE the pace (after you spend 5000 credits- $1,250). But like other reviews have noted, the “women” are NOT fellow paying users and are incentivized to get men to spend their credits. So I doubt getting contact information will matter at all because before they implemented their “content moderation system” aka- filter, I got the number to a dozen Ukrainian women. Of that, I got a dozen requests for money and didn’t meet anyone. So don’t bother, and don’t believe violetdates’ predatory and misleading claims. As a long time business analyst for a well known Fortune 500 bellwether that obviously will remain unnamed, I can however, put forth my professional assessment that Violetdates’ business model and operations seem solely focused on profit and extracting revenue from the “men”, who are the only paying “users”, with and by the efforts of the “women”. Their voracious enthusiasm for wanting to correspond with and engage romantically with an 83 year old man with no profile photo by 20 to 30 year olds who all give the exact same “age is just a number” explanation and rationale, makes it abundantly clear that “women” have no realistic expectations of ever meeting or actually being in a romantic relationship. It’s just not normal as the rule rather than the exception of all 20-30 yr olds. And the fact that they remain “logged on” and ready & available to reply around the clock, 24/7, 7d/wk, 52wk/yr, 12mnths/yr in and yr out can only mean they are either very motivated and incentivized (get paid well, OR there’s the other possibility that hundreds of stunningly beautiful 19,20,21, 22, 23 and up year olds are ALL solely obsessed with seducing an 83 yr old with no photo romantically, flirting sexually and sending explicit nude and anatomically revealing photos.) Possible? Sure it is, Remember Anna Nicole Smith married the 87 yr old billionaire? I’m closer to 38 than 83, but they don’t know that since i don’t have a profile pic and multi millionaire is good enough for now since I have lots of time still. But is it probable, practical, or even plausible that even one from each age from 19 and up, gets humid down south from a 83 yr old BF? 64 years older? I doubt it! But that obviously wasn’t considered because the flawed business model was based on maximal profit, and NOT “allowing romance to blossom naturally and comfortably” or whatever it was that they said that sounded so good, like a normal dating site. But the problem here is Violentaints. Violetdates is NOTHING like a normal dating site. And in their promotional pitch, they don’t mention anything about the true facts of the site. Now, why is that guys? Nothing about the arbitrary filtering software that blocks your messages and doesn’t tell you, even though it’s normal conversation? And nothing about requiring only men having to pay $200 to &500 for enough credits for carrying on a conversation with “women” who constantly try to make you open pictures, videos , and emails (for 50 credits each $12.50 , in addition to each text costing $2.50)? And most of all, why nothing about the 5,000 credit requirement, YES FIVE THOUSAND! Spent with ONE/EACH “woman” before you’re allowed to exchange contact information, but that guarantees NOTHING since the person or “woman” was texting for profit all along as was admitted to me by no less than four “women” who called VD their “job” (remember the 19 year olds interested in the 83 year old and how “women” are either “on duty” around the clock (perhaps because they’re AI chat bots) which would explain their long hours “on duty logged on” (just check how often their green light indicator is on. Hint: it rarely turns off. And if so, ALWAYS turns on if you send a text. Don’t those “women” sleep?

Reply from VioletDates
The top female user "just forgot" to whom she was speaking and what we discussed 10 hours ago; it seems that the second shift arrived, and the new website employee was not aware... They have a pattern: system icebreaker (90% sexual); then, audio/video file (in the chat window); afterward, a letter with a pack of pictures. All in one: 2 credits/message in chat + 10 credits + 50 credits (audio/video) + 90 credits pictures attached to the 1st letter + 30 credits subsequent letters + 90 credits other pictures pack to each letter... and counting! This is a nice business, my friends!
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Follow up: the company which runs VioletDates asked for more details, to verify that I’ve had a genuine experience with their business. Foremost, this means: my e-mail address, my full name and phone number! Now... come on! Why do they need my full personal information? This also breaks the rules of protection of personal data! They threaten me that if not, the company may not recognize my review as genuine - as if I care! I only wanted to advise other men to be cautious with such misleading dating platforms. I have nothing else to prove, nor do I owe them anything, so take care!

Reply from VioletDates
Guys save your money the ladies are all fake , they tell you what you want to hear . They will only talk on that site and use fake pics

Reply from VioletDates
I love the atmosphere here! It's so vibrant and inviting, and the conversations are always fun and effortless.

Reply from VioletDates
An ideal service for those who want engaging conversations or just to unwind after a long day.

Reply from VioletDates
Really great that security is taken seriously. I haven't received any weird or suspicious messages.

Reply from VioletDates
This app fake scam never replay my email wish wood make app so delete account two easy

Reply from VioletDates
Most of the women are false - and they have a method of you spending credits = money for only speaking, sending pictures.
The reviews are false as well.

Reply from VioletDates
It is really kind of scary meeting new people but I'm single for a while and I hate being by myself

Reply from VioletDates
The woman I'm talking , To Is very intriguing And would like to speak to her.
And meet if possible

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Reply from VioletDates
violatdates ukraine where i have been for long time is no more then a huge scam, it is not about meet your love no no it is only about get men to spend more and more expensive credits it is never lead to a meeting. customer for over a year and put lot of money on creds on one lady time to time but when it comes to try meet after been spending houndreds of euro you ask to go somewhere to change adress that lead to a meeting you always get to hear "no i want to stay here" where you can not change privat information. sp please all men stop by creds it all about you to pay more and more creds that lead to nothing.

Reply from VioletDates
I just got played they are only here to take your money its cost 3000-4000 euro to get contact info on lady you have to use 5000 credits to get contact info on the woman the on that played me is i Can put up photo dont want others to get played and lose money

Reply from VioletDates
The woman are beautiful and seem caring

Reply from VioletDates
The way the pilot company got everything done so quickly I have already been through a lot but my first time experiencing this inc. Threw me off the road thank you so much for giving me a chance to get back with this one retired Lady.

Reply from VioletDates
It's not just a dating site, it's a place where you can really meet someone special. The interface is clear and I quickly found interesting people to chat with

Reply from VioletDates
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