AdultFriendFinder Reviews 

I am a woman and was permanatly banned from the site along with 3 of my friends all female. We were not given a reason and were told to call a lawyer. This site is a total scam stealing money from men and not allowing women on the site. don't waste your money

I contacted a black lady named Nicole on this site. She turns out to be very short and at least 300 pounds. She offers to pay for the hotel room if the guy will pay for liquor and marijuana edibles as it is legal in her state of Maryland. Once you meet her she will ask for cash from you to allegedly pay the delivery driver for the liquor and edibles. Once you give her your cash you will never see her or your cash again. as for the hotel room that she allegedly booked will turn out to be false. She hands you a key from the hotel that will never open any door in that hotel. God only knows how many men this woman has victimized and for sizable amounts of money. Avoid any and all persons asking for cash of any kind. The other way this woman operates is for you to get the room and then she asks you to loan her money to get liquor and edibles delivered and that she will return the money once her direct deposit hits or another story where she can't make a withdrawal until a certain time to return the money to you. All of it is a scam to get your cash and then she will disappear with your hard earned money.

This website is a joke. This website loves nothing more than the mess with their members online. They rip people off if you don't watch what they're doing I sent a 10 point gift to a person and look to find that adult friend finder emptied my points account out for the fourth time since I've been a member with them when you contact to complain to them about it they give you a runaround about getting your information even though you have already given it to them, they get you so frustrated that they hope that you just leave it alone and walk away the more people that voice their opinion about this website hopefully will shut this website down as the fraud that it is

Stay away from this site. Full of scamming fake profiles. Dead giveaways as they ask you to contact them through telegram KIK WhatsApp (not local numbers) or gmail email accounts. All woman want men way above there average or husbands wanting you to take advantage of their wife or just trying to trick you into a gay encounter. Just stick to Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish or Hinge. I’ve had a lot of success with these dating apps as I’m currently seeing a few FWB. I’m no Brad Pitt ( but ok looking) or have rich employment so if I can get ladies then so can you. Best of luck gents.

Just about 100% scammers and men who have a wife (at least they pretend so) but want to see other men's penis, just in case the wife decides she wants another man. He has spent over 10yrs looking for just the right penis for her. He had to stick several in his mouth also, wanted to make sure it wasn't right for her.

The scammer really rule the day. Zillions of profiles with clear photos and they rarely paid members. AFf has a solution though--as a man you can pay an extra 10 a month to let all these amazing FAKE women contact you. That about 40 a month. Let's just say it's a very reciprocal relationship scammers and management.
THE guy who owns the site, Andrew conru, just got busted by British papers, for funding eugenics and other right wing people---to the tune of several million, But when caught, he realized (through his lawyer) it was a mistake .
The site is full of bugs too, and you can't get them solved early, they want you to report fake profiles---what do they do? Pretend they can't catch fakes?

If you're a single man, there is no luck for you because this app is only tailored to women and couples. You text women and they either want more money from you onto of the gold member ship or they don't say anything at all. Most popular adult community and it can even help single men get laid IRL or offline. Nothing good can be found from this sithole.

This website is a complete scam, filled with fake profiles and inappropriate behavior. The worst part? If you try to report or block someone, they remove your profile instead of taking action against the offender. I was harassed for weeks by someone I attempted to block, yet their account remained active.

On top of that, do not give them your credit card information, random charges will show up, and they refuse to refund them. To make matters worse, most of the people on the site aren’t even attractive. Save yourself the hassle and avoid this site entirely.

I was on AFF back in 2012 for about 8 months. Met some great women and had a lot of fun. Fast forward to 2023. Got on again and it had changed. A lot of old useless accounts and more fees. Most were scammers and ther seems to be zero policing of scam accounts. Only stayed on for a couple months. Just signed up again for a month of Gold. They've changed a lot of their format, Most profiles are old and outdated, their search algorithm has changed to garbage, won't even search for your cupid preferences, the IM has been completely changed and doesn't work, my Firefox page crashed almost every use at some point. Do not waste your money on AFF. Whoever has taken it over sucks ass and the site is a has been.

If they want you to buy a Gold membership, don't do it. They took my $50 gift card and never gave me my membership. Here is what they finally sent me, telling me I needed to contact another company which is responsible for processing the card. How did that get to be my responsibility? They said: "Upon review, we have not received your payment for the order placed through PayGarden, which is why your membership has not been reflected in your account. The confirmation code you provided only indicates that you initiated an order but does not confirm payment. Unfortunately, this situation is beyond our control, as we do not handle payments processed directly through PayGarden. You will need to contact PayGarden directly to check the status of your payment and resolve this issue." Beyond their control? Unbelieveable.

AFF has blocked me out of my account for some unknown reason. They refused to provide a reason.

I had to dispute their charge on my credit card, so at least they will not get paid

A girl lied about her age on this platform, because she was underage...long story short my friend is now fighting for his freedom. All because age verification is a joke and she slipped through the cracks to talk with older men. It dosnt matter if the minor lies about her age, shows a fake ID, the of age person is still held accountable period. The officers can now take over her account to try and lure other people.

I have been on AAF for about a month. I have chatted with some women, that is if they were really women. They would say a few words and after that they don't respond. I have chatted with two of them on Google chat. Both turned out to be catfish scammers. Wanting money for pain and the other a Apple gift card. But l have noticed both of their profiles on AAF disappeared after they chatted with me.

This site is a scam because they're inconsistent with creating profiles and they charge for nothing. They also refuse to give you a refund.

Once I purchased it 70% of my inbox messages were uncontactable. I came to the conclusion that non-membership sites like J7Dating.com
are much better for dating. They just don't use AI because you pay as you go so they have no chance to mislead you. If they start playing any dirty tricks you will see it and stop paying so there are no risks. AFF is totally different. They have only one goal: to drive you into buying a membership. And then when you buy it they tell you that this type of membership is not good enough and you still have to pay for all the VIP features, you have to upgrade this membership to be able to communicate with people with a false hope of meeting someone. Why do I call it a false hope? Because there are no real people there. Photos of sexy girls are used as bait and switch. They want you to buy subscriptions, that's as far as it goes.

Fake as all the rest of them. Do yourself a favor, come to terms with the fact that there are no longer any real hook up sites! NONE!

I question there legitimacy, joined and paid a years membership, filled out a profile and a little over 3 weeks was locked out of my account for soliciting. I asked what they were talking about and they said I mentioned massage for pay and I advised them I and another member were talking about the cost for a massage in our area. They then said there was something in my profile page that got me blocked but they would not say what that was. Initially they said I was blocked and would not get any refund but I kept bumping up the chain advising I would use every social platform I could find to call them out which did get me a refund.

Joined again after several years and AFF has definitely got a lot worse. Customer service is pretty poor (the Spanish number put the phone down and the US one referred me to another department) and their servers can't cope because the site keeps bufferring. Its not great at what its meant to do either ( hook ups) I got loads and loads of "checking you out" alerts from womrn in the States despite my profile making it clear I was in Europe. As if that wasnt bad enough a search specifying 20 miles of a location in the UK returned llocations in Europe - you can report bugd but something that basic suggests serious software issues.Pretty poor site

Yup terrible app. Dormant profiles that are inactive for years or months. Lots of older women divorced milfs desperate for sex if your under 30 you do t have a chance for hookup or dating. Plus dormant profiles leads to frustration.

The site, and all adult "sex' websites, are owned by a few huge corporations such as Adult Friend Finder. For instance:

AdultFriendFinder.com
Alt.com
BDSM Date.com
Meet BDSM.com
BDSM.com

.. and countless others. You might wonder why they have so many sites. They want you to think that you need to belong to more than one site to get the best results. Then you notice that your mail on Alt.com is always the same as the mail on Meet BDSM.com. The sites are linked.

These sites specialize at milking you for your cash in return for cheap illusions and zero outcome.

In my 6 months on sites like these, I have been contacted by hundreds of hyper-hot females. Virtually none of them were "verified", a quick-and-easy process to confirm that they are not fakes. I always ask for this; they rarely agree. Notably, they *never* follow through.

These sites actively encourage attractive females to contact you. There is always cash changing hands in the form of gifts, points to receive messages, points to send messages, etc. And the membership cost, of course. The sites benefit by having scammers there; without them, the site would be full of boring, ugly females you wouldn't touch with three paper bags.

The goal of the fakers is either to innocently ask you to send them money so they can travel to see you. Or they might just be trying to seek personal approval, even if they are lying. The huge number of male homosexuals on these sites are obviously titillated by having you fawn over them, even though they are not females.

The sites all have a "report" or "block" feature, but this makes you their policeman. Besides, the websites really don't want to get rid of the scammers because, frankly, they benefit from the sexy images being posted, and the lies. Without the fakes, these sites would feel like trying to get a date at Walmart.

All of the photos are stolen from the internet. The profiles are chock-full of AI-robotic nonsense. The come-ons are idiotic. They promise to do anything for you. Does anyone really imagine that they are so attractive as to bring about a valid response from a playboy model? They call us "marks" for a reason -- we're fools with money and no common sense.

How bad is it? This is what I now know that you cannot possibly expect when you arrive through the sexy click-bait ads online:

- A large portion of the beautiful "girls" are male homosexuals, some of them writing from prison cells. Don't ask me how.

- Most others are from foreign countries, posing as US citizens. They have even discovered a way to buy or lease US phone numbers. So if you ask for them to get into an external call, they will provide you what appears to be absolute proof that they are American females. But they will never actually talk on the phone. Their texts will only be occasional. They will also never attend a video call, even secure one Google Meet. Etc)

- The sites often include lurid "live sex" so you can masturbate to a hot female. This is as close as you'll ever get to a relationship. Well at least you know you're "special".

These sites could eliminate most fakes by using their own protective 'bots. Instead, it looks that the sites are themselves generating many of the fake profiles, or coaching hustlers on how to make a living by lying to the public.

I hope my experience can fore-arm you against the "sex" site hustle online. Cancel your memberships to all of these sites. Complain to congress and to the police. Participate in class-action lawsuits to shut these criminals down. Don't let them treat you like a dummy.