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Review summary

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Looking at 63 reviews, most reviewers were unhappy with their experience overall. Many people were dissatisfied with the website, finding it poorly run and difficult to use, with issues like login problems and features not working correctly. Customers also frequently reported negative interactions with staff and administrators, describing them as unhelpful, biased, and quick to ban users without clear reasons. The customer service was also a major source of frustration, with many struggling to get assistance or receive replies to their inquiries. Some people were dissatisfied with the social media aspects, noting that the platforms were not well-managed and contained bullying. Conversely, a small portion of people felt that the site was great, well-run, and offered positive experiences and connections with others.

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Website

Reviewers highlight negative aspects of website functionality and moderation. Many customers report issues... See more

Social media

Users describe negative interactions with social media. Many reviewers report being banned from chat and... See more

User experience

Consumers find user experience to be ambiguous. Some users report incredible meetings and opportunities when... See more

Customer service

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Reviews shaping this summary

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

if you want gay sex you be lucky to get it on fg have had few meets most users are time wasters pretending they want to meet but really want to perv over our photos lots arrange meets and dont show

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

There Chat forums which deal with most topics , from sex to sport to politics. But if you write anything political or about religion culture the Admins don’t like they just ban you from chat mess... See more

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

As with most sites there are to many shooters and time wasters, yet to find anyone decent.

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

ok, so it's not the site's fault that there are abusive, ignorant users who make homophobic/racist/bigoted comments in their profile. but it IS the fault of the site for doing nothing when those user... See more


Company details

  1. Gay & Lesbian Organisation
  2. Dating service

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Free gay dating in the UK trusted by hundreds of thousands of guys since 2010.


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TrustScore 2 out of 5

275 reviews

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have tried to cancel my account but…

I have tried to cancel my account but can't remember my password.i can't make another password to then delete my account because once again you need your old password to make a new one .I now regret joining this site..

30 September 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Best avoided

Admin team ignored bug reports then gave me a lifetime ban over it. Glad I never parted with money.

30 September 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

waste of time the Mods are all a waste of time no back up

Been on this site for many years they tell you to report abusive people and indecent under age content which i did ... i ended up getting a 5 day ban then my my account being totally blocked ..just because i speak my mind in chat room ..made some good friends but at the end of the day its judt a pick up site for dirty one night stands...stay away guys... what a useless service and a waste of time. Yet again as told reported abusive people ..oh and guess who got banned for another 5 daysyup me .. so have deleted my account and will deffo not be returning ..waste of time and a crap site to join

21 September 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dear Customer Service,Strictly Private and Confidential

Dear Customer Service,

I would like to permanently delete my fabguys account with immediate effect with the usernames/emails specified under the below personal details the email address given as sent.

I am now a Full Honorary Member of the British Security Services ( SIS and CIA ) and thus continued use of these sites contravene the Official Secrets Act,1989.

***This email is strictly confidential and subject to monitoring procedures as outlined in the Official Secrets Act,1989***

Regards,

Mr Martin A Walker
55C Maldon Road
Acton
London
W36SZ

12 September 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Told I should not be on there

A guy started to talk to me and wanted to know about my children, when I told him to stop was told I shouldn't be on this site as that's what it is all about. When I complained to admin I was put on a block for one hour, maybe two!!!!. That was the response. However he is still on there. Certainly won't use this again or recommend it

26 August 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Positive support and interaction please

Someone I tried to ignore for a long time goaded me into reacting, my account was suspended and then closed down without an explanation by some anonymous person who had not scrolled back and seen why I had reacted. There is no positive support from this company even though I had contributed financially as a site member.

23 July 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

sratus updat

i have been on this site,sometimes it is good,most of the times very bad,j have tried to conract them as i cant update my status,every rime i try and update my status ,have complained about 40 time but admin keeps ignoring me,probably ignore all thier reviews and never anything is done about the complaints on this site,they probably get too many to reply to

14 July 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

So i went to check my account and saw i…

So i went to check my account and saw i got a message from a holes who manage this site.
"Your account

Hi,
You've been reported for sending abusive messages. This isn’t OK. Everyone on here should be treated with respect. And if that’s not possible, please block the user and move on.
If you have been on the receiving end of an abusive message, don’t respond in kind. It could get you into trouble. Block the user and report the message to us.
Thanks for your understanding.
Admin".

Well that is lies and they know this. The admin are liars and thieves. They can easily mess up your account , without doing nothing, like myself.
What ever the reason of this bs, it is actually bs.
Both fabguys and swingers are run by the same morons, who actually dont check allegations or infringements that have been made about you.
So please never support this site. You might be handing over money to them for nothing. As they dont actually moderate the site, will make wild accusations, that they cant backup.
This first time ive had issues with fab. On fabswingers , a similar thing. They are unfriendly, disrespectful and dam right ignorant and arrogant. They got your money is all they care about. This is a warning to others of the practices that go on their. They are discriminates against disabled and trans foke.

30 June 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

In my experience

I am a bi guy and I've been a member on and off for a couple of years, and can honestly say the majority on there are great, have met a few guys and have had some great casual sex meets with crossdressers/transvestites, gay and bi guys, I must admit I can't meet at the drop of a hat which some seem to want, and i have made arrangements at times to meet that I've had to cancel at short notice, work and real life takes priority, but I've always messaged the ones to let them know, some have taken it personal and blocked me, but that's their choice and problem. On the whole have enjoyed the meets I've been on. Personally the guys and transvestites I've met have all been really nice.
Will be rejoining again

28 March 2024
Unprompted review

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