Absolutely shocking care they gave to…
Absolutely shocking care they gave to my beloved mum! My mum was end of life, instead of letting her rest, playing peacefull music, wetting my mums lips( the type of care you should be given to a 87 year old lady with dementia, who could not eat or drink, as she had forgotten how to, mums mouth was full of ulcers, she could not walk, she had a catheter fitted, she was always asleep. Family were never informed with what care they were given to my mum. Our family realised later, they were trying to feed mum, and making amounts of food up saying she had eaten it, but we knew she had not, as she hadn’t eaten in the last 9 months properly, they weighed mum , why would you put someone through the stress of being hoisted in a sling, for what reason! She must of been petrified , and even that they got her weight wrong! They were also washing mum, when there was no need for this, as she was end of life, they just had to make my mums last days comfortable and leave her in peace to rest. I also found out when I requested all the notes from the care home, they had even gave my mum a bath! The holly bush care and home in Stourbridge, was so bad that I cannot put it into words! My beloved mum, sadly passed away the day after the bath! I cannot imagine what my mum went through the last week of her life in that terrible place! Our family visited every day and we had to look for staff to ask to see how my mum was, they would always be chatting away in the dining room, where there would be about 5 staff to one patient. This home was supposedly specialised in dementia! They had not got a clue! No care or compassion was shown to our dyeing mum. We received a phone call (after mum had been in there just over a week) to tell us to go to the home, we all rushed there, to be told in the foyer of the home in the doorway, that mum had passed away! I cannot explain how as a family we felt, knowing the diabolical care that was shown to our mum and the lies that were told and they never gave us any communication, about my mums health, unless we asked, which we always did, the staff would say “she’s fine” I complained to CQC. Nothing was done, and I had a meeting with the management about all my concerns, they could not disagree with me and just said the usual … lessons will be learned! And I never heard from them again. PLESE don’t send your loved ones there! They are incompetent, no communication with family, no empathy, no correct care given. They are totally clueless, how to support and care for people, especially people with dementia. Grieving for the loss of our beloved mum, and then realising, how they treated her, in her final days, has devastated our family🥲🥲








