Datemyage Reviews 1,987

Not even finish completing my profile 1 minute in and 10 messages from the most perfect looking women lol. Big red flag

WARNING!!! WARNING!!! WARNING!!!
DAYEMYAGE.C AND AFFILIATED YOURCHRISTIANDATE.C ARE JUST BIG TIME RIP OFF SITES!!! RIP OFF!!! RIP OFF!!! WARNING!!!
THEY WANT YOUR (FEMALES ONLY) MONEY! I PAID FOR 1500 CREDITS $300 month after month to develop a meaningful relationship with potential Man of my interest and after a long time, NO MAN WANTS TO MOVE ON TO MEET OR GET OFF THE SITE AND CONTINUE TO KNOW EACH OTHER! Many men on the site are VERY attractive, intelligent, professionals, make great compliments! ALL ATTRACTIVE MEN ON THE SITE USE THE SITE FOR FREE! They chat with you so you pay and pay and pay but not them! It’s on their profiles that they use site for FREE!

I tolerated this BS for long enough. Paid and paid and paid! I got sooo freaking pissed off at this time cz I had learned how to preserve the credits and NOW, the site cancels your remaining credits to ZERO even I had over 1100 credits left.. if you do not use 1500 per month cz I had learned to save for chatting with the Man of my interest without opening the videos, pictures, voice mails or emails on the site, the freaking site CANCELED (ZEROED MY CREDITS I PAID FOR BIG MONEY). I got in touch with the manager on the site and he or she told me that I must use my 1500 in one month and pay another $300 again and again to stay on the site! Though in September of 2025, they did reinstated my credits after I contacted the site. At this time, they refused to return my PAID FOR CREDITS COMPLETELY! Dented all together, no matter what I asked them, begged them to reinstate my PAID FOR CREDITS!!! I did not ask them to refund my $300 but reinstate my ZEROED OUT CREDITS I PAID FOR so I can talk to the persons of my interests!
The freaking manager denied and denied and denied my CREDITS BACK!
The site does not care if we write any BAD REVIEWS! They continue with their RIP OFF WOMEN PROGRAM!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT GET INTO THIS RIP OFF TRAP as soo many WOMEN ALREDY DID!!!
After spending hundreds of $$$, I GOT NO RESPECT FOR SPENDING MONEY NOR THE MAN I HAD BEEN VERY INTERESTED TO MEET AT SIME POINT!
LOOKS LIKE THERE IS SOME KIND OF MONETARY INCENTIVES FOR THE MEN ON THESE AFFILIATED SITES that they talk and talk and talk to the WOMEN but no movement to the relationships off the site!
PLEASE DO NOT GET TRAPPED BY THEM!!!
RIP OFF 100%! I wish we could CLOSE GHEM OUT SOMEHOW!!! They rip soo many WOMEN!
STAY AWAY FROM DATEMYAGE.C, YOURCHRISTIANDATE.C and any of affiliated RIP OFF SITES!!!
Hope We can help other WOMEN to make a RIGHT DECISION!
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL! STAY AWAY FROM THESE DAMN SITES!!!

I made a payment on Sunday and the next day I was being asked to make another payment for me to be able to read email. Fake! This is a scam

Let NOT anyone waste their time and money here!

I agree with all the negative reviews, unfortunately, they’re accurate. The constant video call interruptions are incredibly annoying, and the moment you click on one, your credits are gone.
This is a very poor platform. It’s full of attractive profile photos, but all you get is endless, meaningless chatter designed to drain your credits. It honestly feels like Hotel California you can check out anytime, but no one ever leaves, because the “members” are clearly incentivised to keep you paying and chatting.
Overall, a terrible experience. Don’t fall into the bottomless credit pit.

Do not waste your time and money on this site. If I could, I would give it a "0" rating; 0 dates = 0 rating. Nothing serious will ever come out of this site; nor will it from any other of these dating sites, such as EuroDate, MexicanLoves, or ArabianDate. They are all the same. There is a reason people on this site just want to text here, and never want to text for free on WhatsApp or Messenger, and never want to meet in person. It's not for security reasons, as they say it is. It's because they want to keep you on this site, paying to chat here. I've seen it with 50-100 different girls. I'm not proud to admit it, but it is what it is. These girls are either employees of the site, or they are stolen profiles with someone else or AI texting on their behalf. I even had a girl who admitted to me that when she went on this site, she was offered a job here. Every one of these dating sites needs to be shut down by the FBI, or by some other international authority, depending on what country they are based.

Time 1.30am Malaysian time. I chatted with a member name as Jacob. But today I saw him in a different dating site Instanttalks with different name Joaquim. In that site he stated working as analyst and single. When I asked him are you Jacob from datemyage, he said Yes. So if this kind of situation, does datemyage going to say there is no evidence breach of policy as in scam? These also I paid for credits. Can I get ny credits back?
I can say dishonesty in the part of the members claiming to be widower with a son and ailing father. He is free user. Are you going to say we did background check, we find nothing? How about if he is really married man or maybe in the process of divorce? I already went through trauma chatting for 3 years and user doesn't visit me. Now this. This a very bad. Im sorry to say this.

I am so infuriated with this site. The man I was talking to suddenly disappeared. I called the site and the lady said he hadn’t verified his account and he will come back once he’s done it. WRONG I spoke to several other staff and they said that he had breached the website guidelines and was removed due to the safety of the community. We didn’t even get to say goodbye or even exchange contact details. I am not happy at all. They are liars saying that they are site for people looking for their love of their life.

Despite the details in my profile I was getting messages from people half my age and totally out of my preferred range. Constant video chat requests when I specified I didn't want them. Terrible customer service.

I would give this site a negative score if I could. Will Scott is correct, a total scam.

I applied using my location of Daly City California, focused on a radius of 2 to 5 miles. Of which the racial demographics for this area is about 56% Asian. Of the dozens of profiles I scrolled through, barely an Asian face among them. Definitely a scam!

This site is a rip off. I was communicating with someone and in the middle of my conversation was cut off of the website, telling me I have to purchase more credits! Well I am NOT going to spend my hard earned money for a site that does not support it's members whatsoever!

I have read several of the reviews and I can say that I was talking to a real person. I am a senior with adult children who did not want to see me scammed, so they conducted some high-level investigation and found the gentleman I was talking to on this site. Even though I confirmed he was who he said he was, he insisted on communicating on the DMA platform. He claimed he was scammed himself and was apprehensive about moving off the platform or talking via cellphone away from the site. It wasn't bad the first month, but into the 2nd month until I ended it the beginning of the 4th month, we started talking very frequently, to the tune of intermittently for 12 hours/7 days a week. This included texting, sending photos, emails, and voice messages. Pretty quickly, I learned the best policy was to text only. He would send emails, voice messages, and photos, but I learned those were much more expensive and I would rarely open them. But it was still very expensive and it became something we would argue about once per week, my wanting to move away from the app and his insistence to stay on the app. My problem with the app is that it heavily favors the Free User.
1. The rules claim they are not being compensated but the setup gives me pause on the validity of that statement.
2. It would be advantageous if the system could be changed so that anyone could add credits to an account, including the Free User. I understand that the Free User has a free account, but it would be nice if they have the ability to supply credits to the person they are speaking to should the person ask. It is also a way for the person to determine if the Free User is as invested in the relationship as they are.
3. It would be advantageous if the system would provide the non-Free User with the rules surrounding what their obligations are to the site. It wasn't until I read some of the comments here that I understood why my Free User attempted to conduct a couple of video calls and/or would only schedule video calls versus allowing spontaneity. I understand now when I told my Free User I was running out of credits and would not be replenishing credits, he chose to conduct audio calls with me, I now assume, to get in his quota before I ran out of credits. At the time, I didn't understand why he would call, knowing that method of communication would only gobble up the credits I had left more quickly. However, had I known about the quota, I would have been able to deduce why he chose to do so, then knowing maybe the Free User was motivated by meeting quota versus the sincerity of his pledges of love. I also now know that he did 3 things every morning: (a) he sent a text, (b) he sent a sticker, and (c) he sent an email, a text, or a photo. This was an obvious quota. If we knew what these quotas were, it would be easier for the non-Free User to make some determinations about the sincerity of the Free User.
4. The reason I left DMA was two-fold: (a) a negative expletive was uttered during an audio call with my Free User. I opened a ticket to have it investigated and attached a recording of the conversation as proof. The conclusion of the investigation stated the Free User didn't utter it. If so, why are such expletives within the databank of your translating audio call? I was also told there have been glitches found in the system. (b) The second reason was the Free User was adamant that he did not want to leave the app and wanted to continue on the app. I told him it was not sustainable financially and for these two reasons I left the app.
5. For my own edification, is the Free User penalized for talking to a non-Free User off the platform? Will they lose their free account if they decide to talk to a client off the app?

Generic generated answers, love bombing, gas lighting,they will only communities on the platform.

Thank you for your prompt response here on this platform. However, the timeframe and level of engagement I experienced when contacting your support team via email were very different.

I would like to clarify one important point in your response yesterday regarding the case reference number. The case ID 08629659 was issued by your own team on Trustpilot on 8 November, directly under my Datemyage review. I have a screenshot of this and can provide it if required. This confirms that the case was formally acknowledged by Datemyage only, not any other platform.
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Re: Policy Enforcement - One Simple Yes/No Question

I fully understand that no member should be required to engage in video calls with every contact. However, your own published policy uses the word “have” and not “may” or “should” and states that free users must engage in video calls with contacts at least twice per month.

My concern is not about forcing anyone, but about whether this safeguard was ever enforced in my specific case, considering 15 months of daily interactions with the same verified free user. If policy enforcement exists only theoretically and not in actual application, this creates a gap between expectation and delivery, which may raise consumer concerns under Australian Consumer Law.

A simple Yes or No response to whether video call enforcement ever took place in my case would resolve this completely.
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Re: Same Profile Appearing on 4Different Websites

This strongly suggests a shared backend database, not independent “user choice,” as stated in your reply. For transparency, I respectfully request clarification on the following:
1.How can the same profile with the same ID (39111248642) appear on 4 different platforms without separate ID?
2.Where is this cross-platform free user profile sharing disclosed to paying members before they subscribe?

If profile replication is enabled through a shared backend system, then this should be clearly disclosed to paying members before subscription especially when verification and safety are promoted as platform safeguards. Understanding how policy and technology interact is essential for transparency and informed consumer consent.
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Re: Clarity Under Consumer Law

If a policy is presented as mandatory but later reinterpreted as optional only after a refund request, and if profiles are replicated across platforms without disclosure, this may raise concerns under Australian Consumer Law - Section 18 (misleading or deceptive conduct).

In this context, it is not sufficient to simply state that “no breach of policy” occurred without providing factual reasoning demonstrating how the policy was applied in my case, particularly concerning Communication Policy for free Users - Sections A.3 and C.5 and the verified user’s activity with my account. I interacted with this user daily for 15 months, which clearly goes beyond “casual contact” and can be verified in your internal logs.

Furthermore, policy interpretation cannot be changed after payment, especially if the revised meaning has never been publicly published or disclosed to paying members beforehand. This is misleading, as customers rely on the written policy when deciding whether to subscribe.
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Next Step - Request for Factual Clarity

To close this matter fairly, I am asking for clarification on 4 direct questions:
1.Was policy enforcement applied -Yes or No?
2.Who issued case ID 08629659, which Trustpilot records show was generated by your support team?
3.How did Haitao (ID: 39111248642) appear on four separate platforms without separate registration or disclosure to paying members? Technical explanation of cross-site profile replication.
4. Clarification of how safeguards operate in real communication scenarios

I have already emailed your support team on 21 November and will wait for their response in line with your process.
Once these points are clarified, I will determine whether further action is necessary. I remain open to a fair, transparent, and respectful resolution.

However, if clarity is not provided, I may share my experience through relevant consumer channels so that other paying members can better understand how the policy and technology are applied in practice.

I don’t have a less then 1 start here to give them. I was talking with someone for an over a year and I fall for him like I never before in my life. Then I felt a same thing like others here never agreed to use a other platform or WhatsApp or email.. and I accidentally gift him that annoying credit thing and ask him to return me back meaning like purchase me back he said I don’t know then I end up purchasing again for me to talk with him I have at least spent that much I can buy a property in a USA from that down because I was talking day and night and then it start affecting my bills and start saying him.. because real men who loves you will lift you up and support you to become something not to drag you down !! At some point i started sacrificing my own shopping and my personal needs including fancy lunch just to stay connected with him and pay my bills on time !! In last because I felt so deeply i asked him would you visit me ever in this life before I close my eyes permanently?!! He didn’t sound promising and I loose hope and felt that I am being fooled for over a year now and I have to collect myself!! Withdrawal from this site was never easy many emotional breakdown financial crisis and many more and negative thoughts to overcome it !! I felt that this site have many fake attractive people who reach out like they are businessmen and talk with women like they are big business making millions and I am dating insanely rich men that way I felt !! So very disappointed!! Also as of now that profile stays online 24/7 and when I asked him to remove a picture not to show all women around here I don’t like that because I am literally possessive person also loyal because when I asked him to remove all pictures not to showcase I had already made my mind that I will only share my regular pictures privately to him because I don’t want all other men see me even my regular picture.. I feel not necessary.
Thank you for teaching me a great lesson of my life ….

Agree with the negative reviews, been member for a few days and everything feels dodgy and off.
Luckily I haven't paid for a subscription and cancelling my account as we speak.

Beware of Scams: DateMyAge, Dating.com, and ArabianDate
I have used these three apps over the past three years, and my experience has been bitter and disappointing. Nearly all profiles appear fake, artificially created to scam users out of their money. This is 100% true.
Initially, these apps make you feel hopeful that you might find a life partner. However, after subscribing for some time, you realize that no one is genuinely interested in communicating outside the platform. Profiles insist on chatting only within the app, which is a deliberate tactic to trap users financially. This can leave you feeling frustrated, deceived, and even emotionally affected.
A particularly strange observation is that some profiles remain active and “chatting” for 4–5 years, always appearing very attractive to grab attention. This proves that they are likely artificial creations using photos or videos and never genuinely seeking a real connection. They never engage in discussions outside the app, such as WhatsApp or other platforms.
Despite these risks, these apps charge high prices while promising privacy and security, yet they continue to exploit users. Sadly, governments do not seem to regulate or ban these platforms, allowing this kind of scam to continue.
Takeaway: Be extremely cautious. If someone refuses to communicate outside the platform or seems too perfect, it is likely a fake profile. Protect your time, money, and emotions from these deceptive practices.

There is a big trap I noticed that datemyage/arabiandate/dating.com is giving free membership to attractive girls, then the visiting men are insisted to pay and pay until his pocket tear-off. This is why most beautiful girls is preferred only to talk only with this app. THIS IS HUGE TRAP. Anybody can check it reviewing most girls profile. And this company can exploit most men who is emotionally suffering for love.

This app is a completely scam. All of the guys who send messages are models or actors. I was with one who was a Ukrainian actor . It was my first time on a dating site. He did an excellent job with love bombing messages. I fell in love with him but after I realized he would never leave the app to talk in another platform I left the dating site. It's only a fantasy nothing is real. Now I am so happy because I finally found my soulmate in another local dating site but we met in person after 2 weeks . It's amazing to have a partner near you . Don't believe in their lies please.

In order to send messages or do a video call you have to buy a subscription. After a few texts or in the middle of a video call the credits run out and they're very expensive (enough to last more than a few minutes) to replenish. It's a total scam!

Hi my name is Norma and i was taken in by a romance scam this person's name is Orlando so he says from brazil. Don't be fooled he will keep you sending letters that is 10 Times more expensive than a chat . They got me for asking $35,000.00 think it didn't hurt , he made me think i was going to be with him , live in texas or along a Beach area in a house . Let me tell you i fell for this hook line and sinker. I have a fraud suite against date my age Remember this man is a letter man!!! He will keep you on the site Dont do it