Awful therapist **Shira Freeman**.
Awful therapist **Shira Freeman**.
Awful therapist **Shira Freeman**.
Cold, unsupportive, antagonistic, bad listener. Tone deaf to feedback, and disingenuous.
When she ends the sessions she never says goodbye graciously, rather sounding like she can't wait to scrape the excrement off her shoe. Every session started late, I always waited like Billy no mates till she deigned to appear. When I stopped therapy after she upset me badly she only got in touch to say my payment wasn't going through and even when I explained I'd stopped therapy she did not attempt at all to understand how she had let me down or to arrange a chat to air the issues to see if the therapeutic relationship was salvageable. She couldn't wait to get rid of me.
She doesn't care but at least she doesn't pretend to even at over £70 a hour!
Goes at her own pace rather than being sensitive to the client's stage. Very unemotionally giving, if you don't conform to her snappy solutions which might work if you were a machine she is very intolerant and doesn't even try to hide her irritation. Doesn't follow up pointless "homework" randomly set to give the illusion of methodology, she doesn't adjust when given feedback about what isn't helpful.
I came to her ironically for issues surrounding being let down by my cancer hospital but even though I am still in the middle of a normal ombudsman procedure to which I am legally entitled she kept goading me to get over it, suggesting (which I already know!) I probably wouldn't win even though I've repeatedly told-reassured!- her that my expectations are very realistic. So I've been paying just to be undermined, which I told her explicitly she was doing to me, yet she made no attempt to address my position.
Strung me along for weeks.
When Harley forced her to write an apology after I made a complaint it was literally "Sorry *IF* you felt...." Yes that's the gracious, self-aware language a "qualified" therapist had in her toolkit, you couldn't make this up! In her "apology" email she slyly claims to have only come across as cold and uncaring for being concerned about a payment error as she didn't yet know I'd left. But her bad faith is so transparent since even when I explained I was leaving she just sent a curt " Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you for letting me know and I hope all goes well for you." With zero attempt at finding out if I was ok or if I wanted to discuss anything which is industry standard when therapeutic ruptures commonly occur. She was so obviously grateful to be shot of me in her version of "constructive dismissal".
Her "apology" email trotted out a few breezy "I do hope"s.
Appalling experience, this woman hurt me a lot. These therapists rightly challenge their clients: we open ourselves up to growth and change but they must be equally open and accountable for their modus operandi otherwise the situation is just abusive and gives therapy a bad name as unfortunately I found to be the case with Shira Freeman. Avoid.
On the other hand the admin lady Sophie-Claire was wonderful, it's a shame she wasn't my therapist!
It appears you can only provide publishable feedback by direct therapist invitation. No surprise they don't actively solicit TrustPilot reviews.
30 April 2023
Unprompted review