You are absolutely spot on. I think the content of my message shows what kind of customer you are. Feel free to leave this review on and make yourself look like this. However, you fail to include other, additional self-incriminating points and facts about this matter, so allow me to add these to the review, so potential customers can see why I had to resort to sending such a message:
You bought the same model of seat from my company some time ago (just not soft-close) and have never suggested anything wrong with that seat. You wanted to upgrade to the soft-close option, so you ordered that via our website, whose T's and C's clearly state (under p. 14 'Returns and Refunds'), "If you have attempted to install the item, then no return will be entertained.", conditions which - having ordered via our website - you confirmed that you had read, fully understood and accepted.
Your own e-mail to me after receiving the soft-close seat said, pro-verbum : " Hello Nick. Thanks for the quick delivery, seat fitted and I am delighted. Thanks again. Paul"
I'm sure anyone reading this will think that your e-mail does not remotely seem to be from such a allegedly-disappointed customer who believes he has a right to try to bully his way towards getting a full refund for seat who he also explained that the hinge had become damaged whilst trying to install it, let alone any of the other factless statements you made during our prolonged communication.
However, your persistent and increasingly-ineffective e-mails continued, despite me pointing out that, as you had been 'delighted' with the seat and had used it, it couldn't be returned. I'm sure anyone reading this will wonder why a customer can go from 'delighted' to then trying every trick in the proverbial book to get a full refund, but that - as mentioned above - reflects on you. I just have to deal with the likes of yourself from time to time. Thankfully, it's not a regular occurrence.
Having explained that the seat was 100% non-returnable, you took it upon yourself to return the seat anyway(!) I acknowledged receipt of the seat having been sent back and explained that, as it had been used, I wouldn't touch it for hygiene and safety reasons, giving you the opportunity to uplift your seat or, after a reasonable length of time, advised you I would dispose of the seat.
Instead, as this attempt also failed, you chose to continue your attempts to get a refund by instigating a chargeback via your card issuer. The first attempt failed, so your card issuer (presumably based upon your instruction) changed its tact and reasoning for a chargeback by suggesting that you'd not actually received the seat in the first place. Yes, this one made myself and the contact I spoke with at Barclaycard Merchant Services laugh. As I have categoric evidence to dispute that also with your own communication as proof, this was also unsuccessful.
The fact that you ignored the blatant facts and wasted plenty of my time makes it fair that you didn't receive the refund you knew you weren't entitled to in the first place. Thankfully, the law does actually support sellers and buyers don't automatically get a refund, however persistent or pushy they may be.
If you damage the seat whilst attempting to install it, please don't expect the supplier to just send you another or a full refund. That is not how I do business. I am very fair, but will defend my products and T's and C's to any customer who try to bully their way to get a refund they know (surely) and even then have it pointed out to them why they're not entitled to one. Your actions don't reflect badly on me or my company. I do what I have to and advise customers - where necessary - of their legal rights as a consumer. If they choose to ignore such advice, that's not our fault.
The seat has been disposed of, as per the previous advance notification given.
This matter is now closed, thankfully.