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Secret Benefits takes pride in providing excellent customer service that goes above and beyond. If you are having a problem with the site, please contact us directly and we will do everything we can to solve it. Secret Benefits is where generous and attractive people can meet to find adventure and companionship.
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A big kiss to the support with…
A big kiss to the support with Secretbenefits.com. Very timely, helpful and even a profile tip. I really like the emails from Stella too. Now, if only I could find my perfect match…
Looking on SB for my hero
Hi. This is my first time using this kind of dating site. There are not a lot of guys to pick from where I live so I want to meet a different man in the city who can take care of me and help me get out of this town, haha.
Absolute scam
Absolute scam, I politely messaged women near me, no reply, I replied to messages sent to me, still nothing afterwords, the website is purely after your money, if the webite was legit, then it would make members submit some ID to prove they are real. Avoid at all costs.
However, following this review, SB admin did compensate me for my troubles with a refund so their customer service help staff are very generous and understanding. Again after 2 months the customer service team have given me another 100 credits, because I complained again that there were no real women on site. Will continue using site to see if I can change my mind.
Super date last night
Super date last night. My faith in online dating is restored. This site is doing everything right as far as my experience is concerned.
Met my match on Secret Benefits
Hi. My name is Niles. I'm happy to share I met the woman of my dreams on Secret Benefits. We are very happy together. Many thanks.
Secretbenefits.com is 🔥
Secretbenefits.com is 🔥
I only wish I knew the last 2 years that I've been single and struggling to meet women.
Just putting myself out there and showing interest has provided many great chats as well as dates with some of the most beautiful women I've ever met.
Very nice looking site
Very nice looking site. Many good looking profiles. I recognize a few from other sites.
What's most interesting is my current chat with a complete babe. 2 weeks strong and can't say anything bas about their service.
-Mike W.
Got my new years date on sb
I am happy taking the time to start an SB profile and to look for a companion to travel with.
mission is successful!
There are a few scams on here but if…
There are a few scams on here but if you report them, They're taken down. Its a lil pricey but I've met quite a bit of women on here that turned out alot of nice encounters
They create FAKE ‘Likes’ and Messages! Scam!
I started in August 2023. Set up an account to view profiles. I then spent over $400 in November and December reaching out to over 80 women that had either ‘liked’ me or sent me a message. Most of these had both liked my profile and sent me a direct message. Out of more than 80 reply’s to these direct messages, only 5 messages back! They scam people by sending them fake likes and messages to get them to spend their credits. It is possible many of these are from fake profiles too.
I complained yesterday on Dec 23rd and told them of the issue and asked for a refund of the $400+ That I have spent. I also messaged all 80+ women to ask and confirm if they had actually liked my profile or messaged me, or if there account was hacked or if it was sent by a bot. Secretbenefits.com then deleted and cancelled my profile!!!! They said they issued a refund but I have seen nothing. I have asked them repeatedly to reinstate my profile and they refused. They have now ceased all communications. No response to the last 3 requests today. This website is a complete scam. Save your $$!!
I’ve had good luck with SB
I’ve had good luck with SB. There are a few scammers, but overall most of the women are real. I’ve meet three sugar babies from the site and gone on a lot of dates. I’ve even had a few one night stands with women from the site. A few were probably escorts, but at least they were real. Even at 65, I’ve met attractive, younger women through the site. It’s definitely not a ripoff site!
I'm a baby that has had some amazing…
I'm a baby that has had some amazing experiences on sb....
Now That's a Sugar Daddy Site for Sure
Joined it the last month. Enjoyed the design. Very easy to understand which buttons to press to get what you want. Cool people with beautiful photos. I was lucky to meet a couple of girls and now in the process of meeting them in real-life. Kinda the accomplishment. ;)
What a fantastic website
What a fantastic website!
This is the first time trying SB and out of the few dating sites I’m on, it’s quickly becoming my favorite.
Outstanding:
1. Interface is perfect
2. Lots of hot women
3. Good response rate
4. Intro videos reduce catfish
5. Credits open convo and no xtra fees
6. 2 Real dates that went very well for me
For these reasons, I highly recommend SB to others looking.
I found a good match and I want to hide…
I found a good match and I want to hide or pause my profile. I'm super excited for this guy so I want him to see I'm serious.
I am looking for a friend and mentor…
I am looking for a friend and mentor for my business. I am open to location as well as travel. I am primarily using secret benefits right now.
*If you are single and there is chemistry I would be open to explore more possibilities
Glad I took the chance
I only joined up because of the positive reviews I saw about this dating website. Glad I did because I’m starting to see a very pretty and sweet young lady after meeting her on Secret Benefits.
I had a pleasant date last night with a…
I had a pleasant date last night with a stunner I met off the site, so yes, it does work as I hoped it would.
Don't believe the positive reviews
Felt so silly to have paid only to find out the messages coming through were fake or lacked intention - 10+ messages after a week of signing up and once you have paid for credit you will quickly find out no one actually responds. I did notice a few girls from my city on the site, so I thought it must be real but I'm sure a lot of the profiles are fake or the girls sign up, their accounts are bombarded and they don't return. Oh well, knew it was too good to be true!
Ive been usung SB fir a number of…
Ive been usung SB fir a number of months now. The reason is that I am only interested in chatting with women at the moment and I found that once I use credits to open a chat that it stays open to continue chatting and the site does not charge monthly so it ends up being much less expensive to connect with women compared to some competitor sites.
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