Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
Contact info
Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
My paket doesnt come .
21 October 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Chris,
Our tracking information shows that your package was delivered yesterday 21/10 and we don't seem to have had any contact from you at all. I've sent you an email, please get back to me when you can and we can resolve this :)
Thanks,
Lauren @ Self & More
Discreet and quick delivery
Discreet and quick delivery, with the packages inside always wrapped so cutely! (idk if that's a word but they are v cute). Great quality products, very happy 💞
19 October 2021
Excellent service
Excellent service: the postage was fully traceable and the packaging was discreet.
13 October 2021
Amazing small biz!
Self and More is an amazing small biz! So informative and sex positive. I feel part of a community encouraging self love and pleasure, and have learned so much. The Instagram page is full of fantastic content, and is a great place to see demonstrations of some of the toys. Thanks so much!
10 October 2021
Simply the best!
Simply the best! Great store, with great products and informative and accessible advice that helps you decide what to buy. Me and my partner wouldn't go anywhere else!
27 September 2021
Incredible
Amazing product, reasonable shipping time! Best one I've ever had/will have. I'm nearly tempted to buy 1000 in case the world ends.
26 September 2021
I love Self & More
I love Self & More, great products, great customer service, quick delivery, just the best!
26 September 2021
Arrived quickly and discreetly
25 September 2021
Aaaamazing
Aaaamazing! Was really helpful to see the review that was posted on the blog and content around products is always great. My gf is V happy with her birthday gift ♥
21 September 2021
always great products
21 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Vera,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review! Really great to hear you had a good experience.
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
high standards
Have bought a few toys and products from selfandmore, they're high quality and body safe and as described.
The service itself is efficient and fast. Highly recommend!
19 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Nina,
Thanks so much for leaving us this lovely review! Really pleased you've had such great experiences with us. Looking forward to your next purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Best & ethical sex toy shop ever
A great positive ethical adult toy shop. Great range of products, always great quality and good customer service
17 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey NM, thanks for leaving us this awesome review!
Lauren @ Self & More
Excellent customer service
Excellent customer service, before purchasing I was given excellent advice for which product would suit my needs. Then when there was a problem with delivery they responded very quickly and it all worked out. So glad I purchased!
16 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Phoebe,
So kind of you to leave us this lovely review, thanks so much!
Lauren @ Self & More
Quality and classy product efficiently…
Quality and classy product efficiently ordered and despatched
15 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Mr. Posner,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review! Let us know what we could've done to earn that extra star ;)
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Hey Lou,
Great to hear! Thanks so much for supporting Self & More.
Lauren @ Self & More
always skeptical of trying new sites
always skeptical of trying new sites to order from but I was swayed by reviews, very easy to navigate on site and I didnt have any issues making my order. was despatched and delivered extremely fast so I really can’t complain!
10 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Chloe,
Great to hear that you had a good experience. Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this lovely review!
Lauren @ Self & More
Quick and Speedy!
Quick, speedy delivery as always, discrete packaging, top marks for the products!
10 September 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Ell,
So pleased to hear you're a happy customer! Thanks so much.
Lauren @ Self & More
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