Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
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Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
Excellent Customer Service
The customer service at Self & More was outstanding. I was freaking out about receiving an order on time for a special birthday and Lauren went above and beyond to ensure it arrived to me on time. It's my second time ordering from the site and I couldn't be happier with both the service and the product range. It's my new go to store :)
24 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Kristina, so glad I was able to help! Really hope you enjoyed your order and looking forward to seeing what you choose next. Give me a shout anytime if there's anything you need :)
Lauren @ Self & More
Great service
I contacted Lauren and she was really helpful with explaining delivery/dispatch times. She also helped me correct a mistake with the order. Would recommend Self & More customer service!
23 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Emma,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this review, and I really appreciate your patience with us. Please do give me a shout if there's anything else you need.
Hope you're enjoying your purchase!
Thanks,
Lauren @ Self & More
Brilliant service and superfast…
Brilliant service and superfast delivery. Enjoying my purchases, thanks!
23 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
So glad to hear you're enjoying your purchases!! That's what we like to see. Thanks so much for shopping with us <3
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Awesome, thank so much for the review Joey!
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for your support Lucy <3
Lauren @ Self & More
Great overall experience
I’ve purchased a couple of times from Self and More and both times my order has been processed and distributed very quickly (processed and sent out by the next day). Communication is great. The website is easy to use with a great description of each item. All of my purchases have been very good quality.
16 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Jay,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this wonderful review! Really appreciate it and so great to hear that we are getting it right for our customers.
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
amazing as always!
as always an incredible and speedy experience order experience!
i pre ordered my item on the evening of may 2nd, with an expected shipping date of around a week, but it was shipped may 4th, and arrived lunchtime of may 5th!
excellent!
15 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Seri,
Thank you so much for your continued support! Hope you are enjoying your new purchase <3
Lauren @ Self & More
Great service
Great service. Easy to use website, good communication and things arrived when they said it would!
15 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this review Andie! Hope you're enjoying your order.
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Thank you so much for your order, and for leaving us this lovely review. Feel free to get in touch if you need any help or product advice :)
Lauren @ Self & More
Arrived very quickly and in very…
Arrived very quickly and in very discreet packaging, lovely tissue and thank you note inside. Products were just as I expected, spot on! So excited to try them all! I also got a free gift with a £50+ order which was an amazing deal!
14 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Kathryn, So pleased to hear you were happy with your package! Always lovely to get nice feedback. Enjoy!!
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for your order Michelle, and for leaving us this great review!
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Amazing customer service
Amazing customer service, cannot fault at all. Quick on time delivery and packaged lovely.
12 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Natalie,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this lovely review. Really appreciate it and so good to hear that you had a great experience shopping with us.
Have a lovely day!
Lauren @ Self & More
Quick and discreet delivery
Quick and discreet delivery.
Haven't had to use customer service as have had no issues. Perfect.
11 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Melissa,
Thanks so much for supporting our small business and taking the time to leave this review!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Super fast delivery and Lauren…
Super fast delivery and Lauren processed my discount after I forgot to put in the code. Would recommend this site to anyone!
10 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for your support! Really glad I was able to help on this occasion, let me know if you need any help in the future :)
Enjoy your purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Quick and beautiful
The product arrived quickly and was packaged really beautifully and sustainably. Really like the Momotaro and hope it can help me.
9 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Patricia,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this really lovely review. Let us know how you get on with the Momotaro!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
10/10 From Start to Finish
Amazing customer service & super quick delivery. I was kept up to date at every stage from order to arrival. So recommended & I’ve already placed my next order! ⭐️
5 May 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Jade, thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this lovely review. Appreciate your support! <3
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for leaving us a review Vicky! Enjoy your purchase.
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Hey Natalia, thanks for the thumbs up! Hope you enjoy your purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
So glad to hear this Anna, thanks so much for your order!
Lauren @ Self & More
Great service
Order dispatched quickly, easy to use website, packaged well and discreetly
30 April 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Hannah,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
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