Self & More Reviews 314

TrustScore 4.5 out of 5

4.7

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more

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  1. Sex toy store

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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.


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4.7

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TrustScore 4.5 out of 5

314 reviews

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I recommend it over other similar websites

Good customer service, my item got lost in the post and after a few weeks I reached out to the Team at Self & More. They replied quickly and the process was hassle free. The products on the website are good with decent prices too. Other websites tend to have really tacky products, but everything here is sleek, simple and nice to look at!

26 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Thanks so much for leaving us this lovely review. So glad we were able to get things sorted for you and hope you're enjoying your purchase!

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Brilliant

Brilliant customer service, speedy delivery, discreet packaging. So pleased with my order! Highly recommend!

25 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Yay, so glad to hear you're pleased with your order! Really appreciate you taking the time to leave us a review <3

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

So pleased with my order & will…

So pleased with my order & will definitely order again in future!

20 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hi Caitlin, thanks so much for leaving us this review. So pleased you're enjoying your purchase!

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Self and more is always quick delivery

Self and more is always quick delivery! And discreet packaging.

19 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hey Danni, thanks so much for taking the time to write this review for us! We really appreciate your support <3

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Great products

Great product, quick delivery

18 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hey Holly,

Thanks so much for leaving this review and supporting our business!

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Outstanding customer service

The customer service that I have received has been outstanding. I received a product that had a fault, and the company couldn’t have responded any quicker to rectify the situation. They were kind and professional and I would definitely shop here again.

The products were well packaged, discreet and they took not time at all to arrive!

16 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hi Leigh,

So glad we were able to get you sorted! Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this lovely review. Looking forward to your next order <3

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Best sex toys I’ve bought for a loooooong time

The toys are fantastic! What made it stand out to me was the communication from them! I had some technical difficulties when checking out and I had a response within half an hour, from Lauren even though it was 11.30pm, to sort everything out. 110% will buy from here again and already got things in my wish list! Thank you!!

14 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

*Alexa, play Breath - Blu Cantrell*

What a throwback, thanks for reminding me of that tune! So pleased that I was able to help with your order. Hope you're really enjoying your purchase!

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Fantastic service and exquisite toy!

I had been waiting for an item to come back in stock and I signed up to the email system and was delighted to get an email of it coming back in stock! I also got 20% off from completing a survey from Instagram so even better value for money. The toy is exquisite!!

12 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Woohoo we love a bargain! Thanks so much for supporting our small business and for completing our survey. It's super appreciated. Glad you're enjoying your purchase!

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

No issues at all.

12 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review Rose <3

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Excellent service

Excellent service, excellent product, very happy customer :)

10 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hey William,

Happy customers are what we like to see!! Enjoy your purchase!

Thanks,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Simply The Best!

Fantastic service. 😍

Love your Instagram page and Luscious Lauren’s honest and clear reviews are the cherry on the top.

Clear emails and great updates on the order process all the way through.

Sustainable and discrete packaging!
Thank you.

10 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Thanks so much for your kind words Mrs. P, much appreciated. Hope you're enjoying those purchases!!

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My favourite place to buy sex toys!

My favourite place to buy sex toys!
I love Self & More, from the easy to navigate website, Instagram account run by the fabulous Poppy and the discreet delivery. I also love the fact that I'm supporting an independent business and feel comfortable browsing for products. I now would not go anywhere else!

9 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hey Ellen,

Thanks so much for this lovely review, we really appreciate your support!

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Lovely personalised experience

Lovely business, I have recommended to all of my friends! I love the personalised feel of the site, the luxurious and varied selection of items, detailed item descriptions and the extra fun content on Instagram. I recently bought the Satisfyer curvy 2 and it is incredible, plus the Sliquid H20 lube which is really great quality. Special mention to Lauren’s extra detailed Q&As on Instagram which answer anything you could possibly want to know.

8 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hi Mollie,

Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this really lovely review. So glad you love the Curvy 2+ and have found my Instagram ramblings helpful! Give me a shout if you ever need some advice on a new purchase!

Have a lovely day :)
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Awesome product selection

Easy website to maneuver, fantastic product selection

8 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Thanks for taking the time to leave us a review Jaz! Really appreciate your support.

Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Love the product

Quick and fast delivery. Love the product!

7 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

So great to hear you're happy with your purchase Billie. Thanks so much for supporting our small business!

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

What an amazing service

What an amazing service! I found self and more on Instagram through Lauren Gordon and was definitely influenced. I love that they have so many reviews/Q&As etc makes it really easy to make an informed decision even as someone new to toys!
There was an issue with my delivery, nothing to do with Self and More but when I got in touch to explain Lauren was amazing and managed to sort it much quicker than I expected!
Outside of the service just to comment on the you itself...wow! I am super impressed and as someone who is new to toys the curvy is great to start, definitely made me more curious to try different options as well! What’s better than women empowering other women to get ultimate pleasure! Definitely recommend!

7 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Oh Patricia, thank you so much for leaving us this really lovely review! Really pleased I was able to help and get things resolved for you quickly, and it's great to hear how much you're enjoying the Satisfyer Curvy! Give me a shout if you ever need some advice on a new purchase ;)

Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Can’t Fault!

Excellent product, great service and speedy delivery. Can’t fault! ☺️

7 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Thanks so much for this lovely review Nicole, we appreciate the support! Great to hear we got it right and so pleased you're enjoying your purchase!

Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The website was super easy to use

The website was super easy to use, what I ordered came super quick despite it being lockdown. Great company. Thanks.

7 April 2021
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Reply from Self & More

Hey Natasha,

Thanks so much for this feedback, it's great to hear we are getting it right. Give us a shout if you need any future product recommendations or advice!

Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More

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