Rude Receptionist Ruins it for Everyone...
We bought a kitten about a year ago from Facebook. I don't usually agree with buying animals instead of adopting them. However, something drew me to this one. We picked him up, and he was tiny (after being told he was 12 weeks and vaccinated). We eventually figured out that he was only about 7 weeks old. When we picked him up, there was another kitten who was pending collection. We decided to ask the owner if we could have the 2nd kitten as we were so worried about her safety after seeing the state the first one was in. She agreed, and we went back for her. She was also only about 7 weeks and tiny.
We weaned them, took them to the vets, and got them both vaccinated. We had been looking after them in a 2 bed flat ever since. When they were a bit older, we started looking into neutering them. Unfortunately, I lost my job recently, so our income significantly dropped. We could not afford the neutering, so we contacted countless charities attempting to get help with neutering costs, only to be told that they were full over and over again.
The cost of food, litter, insurance, pet plans, and neutering for 2 cats started taking a toll on us. While we were coming to the decision of what to do, we kept them separated. We also have a young child, so this has all been a challenge. We went on holiday (prebooked and paid for over a year in advance) and had the neighbour look after the cats. When we got back, we were informed that they hadn't been separated the whole time. We knew in that moment that we had to make the heartbreaking decision to give one up.
We decided to give our female cat up as there was now a risk of her being pregnant. We knew this was the right thing to do as a rescue would be able to provide her with the care she needed. We contacted a few places, but unfortunately, they all have waitlists. We rang Warrington Animal Welfare and explained our situation. When it got to the question of her living with other pets, I started explaining that we had a male cat who, at this moment, was also not neutered (we have been saving for a couple of months and are nearly there!) The woman on the phone with us started being very rude and snarky.
The woman on the phone told us that if we couldn't afford two cats, then we couldn't afford one. She also told us that if we give up our female cat, the male cat would jump out of a window trying to get to other females. Her tone was very condescending, and she was extremely unprofessional. She had absolutely no right to tell us what we can and can't afford, and to assume that we are so neglectful that we would leave a window open that our cats could jump out of was just horrible. She has clearly never had to struggle by the questions she was asking about our financial situation! We love and care about our cats, which is why we decided to do what was best for them, even if it breaks our hearts.
I started getting upset by all of this, told her I had changed my mind, that she was being judgemental, and I hung up the phone! There is no way I will be giving my cat to Warrington Animal Welfare after this. Learn some compassion and understanding before judging someone as you don't know their situation.
17 January 2025
Unprompted review