Absolutely ridiculous dating site. The worst I've ever encountered. The cost to message anyone starts at £20 for 1 week!!! Yes, thats right, 1 WEEK! A 6 month subscription costs over £100. I dont know... See more
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Our time to love life together. Ourtime is the dating site for singles over 50 looking for new friends, fun activities and someone special to enjoy life with. Create your profile for free, run your search and access a list of like-minded singles who share your interests. Our Passes help you make the most of your dating experience and meet singles at your own pace: enjoy unlimited messaging with the singles you like, try voice and video calls, decide who can contact you, receive our personalised selections of singles who share your passions and interests. Enjoy reduced rates on our Activities and Outings in your area or online and meet new people who share a common interest or who simply want to relax in good company. Download our mobile app or visit www.ourtime.co.uk !
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Rubbish, stay clear
Joined after a link from another site, but didn't commit to any payment. Was getting viewing number and a few likes. No matches. Had an email that someone wanted to contact me, but I had to pay.
My overall view is that it's a load of rubbish.
Out of Time & Patience: Ourtime
First off I wish there was a score of less than 1 as that is what I would have given. So just one example of what I consider to be a terrible service of this organisation (itself part of Match.com which has been receiving very bad reports in the press/television of late). So in relation to women who initiated activities by expressing a 'Like' for me. This has to date totalled 52. However, of these 49 of these have been marked as 'This profile is no longer available - The account has been suspended by our moderators'. One must assume that these are mostly false account (scammers). No sooner do I get a 'Like' than the Account is removed. Very disappointing but also begs the question why they cannot be identified and removed before they become active. Of those 3 remaining 'Likes' two appeared this weekend and I have little doubt they will disappear on Monday when moderators return. I guess to newbies on the site it looks good to have so many of what I would class as 'False Likes'. In my opinion Ourtime have no interest in removing such accounts. In terms of account liaison I find Ourtime fail to address my concerns and again am of the opinion that they are generated through AI bots and give the expected bland blurb.
A spam bot with a dating feature
Outime is responsible for at least 87% of all the spammail sent om the entire internet.
Waste of time
Waste of time , I've paid my subscription and in order for someone to reply to me I have to send a "love note".. !!!!!!!!!! Which costs on top ... This site is a disgrace ... It's like the government trying to squeeze everything you can get out of someone ...thank you for not helping and making me feel worse ...
The site is a financial con
I have cancelled my monthly subscription today because I have met someone. The site said I still had to pay another 4 months of subscription up to and including March 2026. I didn`sign up for a 4 monthly subscription but for a monthly subscription.
Ourtime Its Not
Used MATCH. com many years ago which was Ok, but this site is really bad. So many fake profiles. Same old profiles come up time after time even though you have " not liked" them many times before. Navigation is poor.
You never really know if your communicating with a real person or a scammer. Avoid this site. Save your money
The online platform is very rigid not…
The online platform is very rigid not allowing prospective members to go outside tick boxes.
Many of the male members were recovering from previous relationships or widowed and were not good communicators.
There is no filter process for degree of good looks...you get whoever signs up at the time.
Basically, the filters don't count for anything in the search. If you ask for matches within 50 miles you still get people >100 miles away.
It's Russian roulette on steroids.
Utter crap
Utter crap. They take all your information then say your profile is fake and ban you.
Unfortunately most of the responses and profiles are AI
I recommend staying away from Ourtime unless you like getting catfished, conned out of money and overcharged. OurTime is dinosaur in the age of J4Elit.com
which is much cheaper and there is a lot more authenticity and flexibility there. Another big problem with OurTime is that when your authorize one transaction they charge you for two or three. When you try to dispute these charges there is no live person to talk to. Their customer service seems to consist only of bots and they are not helpful at all. Everything is done and organized in the optimal way to fleece you of your hard-earned money.
Restrict you to delete, fake accounts & GDPR breach.
I joined Our Time (a sister company of Match.com) & was appalled to see the number of fake accounts, especially AI accounts (not so difficult to fathom once you ask a completely random question). I decided the site was not for me & chose to delete my account in the manner they requested.
It transpires that despite three attempts, my account has not been deleted & in breach of GDPR, Our Time continue to solicit business using my data & images. I have now suspended my account as Our Time refuse to delete it. Avoid using Our Time or Match. Don't get fleeced by these chancers.
They should relist it as a waste of…
They should relist it as a waste of time. 6 months later no thanks. Ghosting and most people had the communication of a cardboard box.
This is a repeat of other dating sites…
This is a repeat of other dating sites so basically I am paying more than one fee for replica sites that just have a different name.
Most men on the site don't bother to fill in their profiles and some don't even put a photo on. ( as if you are going to date someone who won't even show themselves ! )
If you message anyone it is very very rare that you will get a reply...it is almost as though the posts are bogus or AI generated.
All in all it is a very expensive, dissapointing waste of time and money.
I have come to the conclusion that it is nearly impossible to meet genuine local people on any of these sites.
I have joined 3 now and they are all the same.
Do extensive checks before paying , I wish i had !
same as Match
same as Match , as some people have said already its a mirror image of match same people same format
total waste of time and money,
I never thought I’d use an online…
I never thought I’d use an online dating app before but it has been so good meeting with so many like minded individuals. Honestly the amount of lovely people on Ourtime is amazing. It’s been a pleasure chatting & connecting with them. Would definitely recommend this site for anyone looking for love & friendship
This is not a free dating site
I was lead to believe it was free.
The site reels you in, however you have to pay to receive and send messages.
I have considerable experience of these…
I have considerable experience of these websites. My big concern is that before signing up and paying one has to confirm details and upload photos. Fine ! But...what happens if you do not pay. Simple ! You start getting messages from people that you cannot see and that cannot be read. A nice 'hook' to get you to part with cash. But look at this the other way round - you join and you pay and see all those lovely profiles of others and you start messaging. But....then you get ignored. Not lovely profiles after all. Or are they ? Maybe none of them have actually signed up and paid. Maybe they cannot see you or read your messages. Looks a bit like sharp practice to me. Or maybe a total scam ? Like auto re-billing. You have to OPT OUT of this - or they will keep taking your money 'ad infinitum'. It should be illegal but then if you are offshore and not subject to any law then you can simply take the cash and enjoy an amazing lifestyle on the funds stolen from unsuspecting suckers like you. Try joining the local amateur dramatics society - at least you have a modicum of a chance of meeting someone.
Beware
Beware ! If you add a photo and your details and do not open an account or pay you will still get messages from prospective matches. So if you pay and join how can you ever know if the person you message us actually signed up and even able to respond. This us very clever sharp practice and frankly us a disgrace
Difficult to access site
I found it impossible to reach the site on my laptop and could only access periodically using the app on my phone. Impossible to cancel automatic subscription. Received 'likes' from the same people again and again (fault with Ourtime). Absolutely dire experience. I'm aware a lot of these sites have no way of contacting them but certainly wouldn't use this one again.
I don’t trust this company
I don’t trust this company. Its website shows that it has earned 4.5 stars but Trustpilot kicks it back to 1 star. I had one woman using same photo move from Rochdale to Ramsbottom overnight. Another 2 women had exactly, l do mean exactly, dreams and interests, they even appeared in the same order. I believe that some of these women are genuine but as the company wants you to pay before you can message them or check out who has reviewed your profile. I just wish that I could contact some who is happy with my pic and profile. I don’t get enough opportunity to meet likeminded women. This company is just coining it without consideration for feelings and is actually falsifying profiles. I don’t blame the women, there are some lovely photos, but those photos are being misused for profit.
Waste of time and money!
I joined mainly for the promised, numerous social occasions: in six months there have been none!
After repeated requests for no more of the emails, they continued to come.
New profiles were few and far between. I had numerous likes but they were mostly from unattractive or distant men.
In 6 months I had two dates. One from someone who looked far older than his photos and one nice date from a man who was merely a serial dater.
Many profiles were from con artists.
Most profiles were repetitive and from distant, unattractive or mismatched men.
Don't waste your money! I've cancelled now and following other reviews, I will contact my bank to make sure that I pay no more money!
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