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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Beyond dreadful. No notifications or input. Went to turn off my renewal online - website can't find it. MASSIVE CON & AVOID AT ALL COSTS

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Joined match.com. filled in questions'to enhance matching' and was without permission enrolled on affiny. Cannot view or message on affiny with a match.com subscription. Match.com charges lot to subs... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Total scam. Customer service is none existent. Cancelled my membership within the 14 days "cooling off" period but they still took my money. Claimed that they had not received my cancellation request!... See more

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Would give no stars if possible. I was conned into answering their questionnaire giving more detail of what I was looking for etc. thinking it was Match.com. I'm now finding it extremely difficult to... See more

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Based on compatibility, Affiny is the serious dating service for singles looking for a lasting relationship. Create your profile for free and start your personality test to discover your personalised selection of singles who share your values and aspirations. As a subscriber, you’ll unlock a host of benefits, including choosing who you share your photo with. Intrigued about meeting singles who are on your wavelength? Head over to www.affiny.co.uk, where true compatibilities are found.


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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Don't waste your money

I had high hopes for this dating site, but it is absolutely awful. Don't waste your money.

5 August 2021
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Reply from Affiny

Hello Petrina Marks, thank you for your review. We'd like to better understand the reasons behind for your rating. It would be so helpful if you could elaborate by emailing customercare@help.match.co.uk. We will try our best to find a solution and pass on feedback if necessary. Thank you. Andrew, Match Customer Care

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Avoid

More interest options to select from but no ability to search by interest. All you can do is random search by affinity score which does not work well. Also on mobile if you search a list every time you step out of a profile it puts you straight back to the top. Waste of time and money

3 June 2021
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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Warning about scams and praise of customer service

I’ve been on the site less then a week and have been scammed by two profiles providing exactly the same information about themselves- single man (one with child, one without), in late 40s, good looking, born in Canada (Quebec), spent majority of live in New York and just recently moved to London, trying to settle and both are civil engineers.
Be careful!
Saying that I can’t complain about customer service which has responded very promptly and dealt with my complaint the way I wanted, hence why I gave 3 stars as I think it’s very important if site actually listens to their customers.

21 May 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

As others have said it’s a con

As others have said it’s a con, I’m in match and all it says is fill in questions to improve your chances. You do this and next thing ££. Didn’t pay and deleted account. Will also be leaving match when subscription ends!!!!

10 May 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Avoid like the plague - Unable to delete profile

I like many others was diverted to this site when I decided to join Match. It was almost sold by Match as if it would open up your opportunities and would be inclusive within the Match subscription. It has taken me almost 2 years to consider even using a dating site again and now I find myself wishing I had not bothered. Fortunately I have not taken a paid subscription to Affinity but I have put all my data on and a photograph and I am getting favourite's & messages from people but I DON'T want to subscribe nor have my information on there. It is a complete breach of my privacy and will mislead people on there to thinking I am available. This is just a way of Affinity making it look like they have a large database of people.

Has anyone discovered how to delete their profile as the instructions saying how to do so, e.g., 'go into your account and select the unsubscribe link at the bottom of the page'. that would be great if there was such a link. Any help much appreciated

3 May 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Terrible site

Terrible site, poor platform and user experience, not even worth the effort of joining.Joined through OurTime.Com. Don't waste your money.

15 April 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Avoid this site

Avoid this site. Luckily I read some of the reviews here before I thought of subscribing. I was a member of Ourtime (another Match.com offshoot) and kept getting messages on how to increase my chances of finding my match in Affiny... Just like all the matches from ourtime these were totally not what I asked for. I live in the middle of the country, I don't want to be travelling over 100 miles for a coffee, even if we could which obviously we still can't (covid restrictions). Even if you specify your looking no further then say 50 miles, you still get matches in Glasgow or Cardiff or London because you also specified she had to be between 5'5" and 5'9"... This is clearly all done by algorithm and there is clearly no human imput, apart from yours.
Please read all the other reviews before parting with any cash...

25 March 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Absolute rubbish

Absolute rubbish, garbage, con trick, scam, fraud...
I’d put something stronger but it wouldn’t get posted.
Stay well away and do not waste your money!!
Match should be ashamed as it gives the impression affiny is linked to it.
And trying to cancel your subscription is made as difficult as possible. Avoid!!
STAY WELL CLEAR OF THIS WEBSITE IT SHOULD BE BANNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

22 February 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Match and there linked site Affiny are Garbage & Not Worth A Penny

Match and there linked site Affiny are absolute garbage. It is just one great big scam to take money from you. I had a paid for subscription on both sites which was quite expensive in my view. Once I used this site after two days I noticed how fake the answers were from what I thought were real genuine women. I bececame suspicious of what was going on. You get blocked by every women you try to contact because the site in my opinion is using bots and random messages.

I really don't want to give it any stars at all, one is far to many but you have give it something.

Please, please all men and women out there do not join match or affiny for valentines day to find that special person you are looking for becuase if just take money of you like it candy. They have the check to keep billing you for months once you finally, find out how to unscubsribe. That can't be legal.

God, I'm really angry about this. Please don't use them to find happiness you just be disappointed.

3 February 2021
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a scam website!

25 January 2021
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Reply from Affiny

Hello Commodore, thank you for your review. We'd like to better understand the reasons behind for your rating. It would be so helpful if you could elaborate by emailing customercare@help.match.co.uk. We will try our best to find a solution and pass on feedback if necessary. Thank you. Andrew, Affiny Customer Care

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Absolute rubbish, would give a zero if I could

Absolute rubbish, I’d put something stronger but it wouldn’t get posted.
Stay well away and do not waste your money!!!
Match should be ashamed as it gives the impression affiny is linked to it.
And trying to cancel your subscription is made as difficult as possible. Avoid!!!

20 January 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

An absolute scam

An absolute scam. My intentions was to be on Match.com as guided by the payment link but once I had paid, I found myself on this affiny. An absolutely useless dating website
I’m trying as it is to recover my money so I can pay Match.com which is what I thought I had done in the 1st instance

19 January 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Very disappointing and faulty

I took a subscription at a special price. I can't upload any extra profile pictures. I deleted the original one and now I have no profile pictures. I thought I would have an inclusive Match.com subscription but this is not the case. There are many men on the site with no profile picture. I'm not surprised as the site doesn't seem to be working right. As I'd gone straight to looking for matches after I paid for my subscription, I'm now stuck with it for 3 months. I wish I hadn't used it and would not advise anyone else. Also there are few men on Affiny in my geographic area.

I since found a way to upload photos. While the whirlygig thing is whizzzing round and round, I hit refresh the page and it then uploaded the picture. I still have the problem that men on Match want to contact me but I don't have a subscription on Match. Affiny is separate and doesn't work like OurTime does where singles from Match and OurTime appear on each other's singles lists. Very confusing.

31 December 2020
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